I became too comfortable in my own skin.
He Gene!
I go to at least 2 OA Meetings a week. This keeps me accountable to everyone in the group and keeps me grounded in remembering who I am and where I came from. It's a pain in the butt to go out two evening a week, but it's what I need to do for ME! I highly recommend it.
I also started a monthly Lap-Band Support Group where I have forged personal relationships with other bandsters, and is also another place where I have to be accountable.
These are the things that work for me, for what they are worth. Blessings,
Ron