OT - update on the wrong phone number guy

Well, thank goodness for my family! South Jersey is a small place when it comes to who you know and what you know. OK, so my cousin and her husband both live in the South Jersey area and my other cousin use to live there and they ALL know people - this is the scoop: We looked up his phone number doing a google search. He owns a company and that is a company phone number NOT his home phone number that he has his calls transfered too. He is MARRIED. He has children. My cousin and aunt both work in a doctors office where his family goes and my aunt says his is an A$$ and to run away from the phone as fast as I can when it rings. My other cousin and her husband know of this guy and happen to be friends with his brother-in-law, who happens to be my second cousin on the other side of the family! The whole entire event just gets weirder and weirder. I am not answering any more phone calls from him. And he is not a retired cop... he got injured on the job and is on disability. Just goes to show that things like that really only happen on television or in the movies. I am disappointed because I thought I would have this great story to share - I am happy to find out now and not after a few dates or even worse a sexual encounter. UGH!

Beth, I am so glad you found out before you got any more involed. My favorite saying is, "I don't always know what I want, but I know what I DON'T want, and that guy sure sounded like trouble. Keep affirming your heart's desire and you will get it. Best of luck to you. Take care. Mary

Thanks Mary - can you explain why I always attract the losers?

Everyone is attracting this loser. He is just waiting to jump on some unsuspecting woman's bones! I am so glad your family knows people! The right guy will come sweetness....be patient.

I am tired of being patient!!!

That stinks! I'm sure you're disappointed, but I know that you're a little glad that someone knows who this guy is and that he's up to no good! I'm glad you found out now! I'm sure that you're tired of waiting for prince charming to come along. Do you go out at all to meet people? What about your friends? Don't they know of anyone?

Aww, hon!~ Don't be upset, be thankful!~ The guy is a CREEP!~Mr. Right will show up when you least expect it!~ You're a Bandster, and should be used to PATIENCE!~

I'm so glad you found out he was a creep now rather than later! Have you tried match.com? I met my hubby there. Of course I had to wade through a huge pond of creeps first lol! Amy

I'm glad you found out now. What a bum! If I were you I would call his wife and let her know what the bum is up to...

I am so relieved you checked this guy out Beth. I know I am a worrier (sp?), but something just didn't sound right with this guy. You deserve the BEST...I'm glad you didn't have to meet another loser.