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I know exactly what you mean, I am 6 months out, started at 303 now 219. I am guilty too of eating things I know I shouldn't be, and I sometimes can't stop it for days. I do it one day and I say "ok you fell today but tomorrow you will get back on track". This is so much harder than I thought it would be. Even though I attend every support meeting I can and my best friend just had the surgery 9/25 I can't seem to stay focused. I try not to buy the things I know I shouldn't have but somehow I still find myself doing that when I go to the store. I actually avoid going to the store just so I don't buy anything bad. I swore before surgery I would not let this fail like all my past "diets" but everyday I see myself getting more out of control. So yes if anyone has any great input please tell us because i do not want to be a failure at even gastric surgery.
As long as I stay in network and do everything that the insurance requires which was 1. Join a gym and get fitness verification, 2. EKG, 3. Ultrasound of the gallbladder, 4. Nut and Psych, 5.PCP letter of support and Endoscopy. I have everything done and my next appt is the 16th my first appt was 9/4 so hopefully I will have a surgery date in November. I am so glad my insurance didn't require the Dr to do a supervised diet for 6 months. Thanks so much for every ones help. Funny how the only thing I am worried about is the Insurance.
Medicare has dropped that a place has to be a center of excellance for surgery.....before this you could not use your medicare if the place that did your surgery was not a center of excellance.....this a wonderful move........
I think what you are experiencing is very common. I know I really struggled with self-sabotage, as well as developing other addictions after surgery. I went to some therapy and now use the 12-step program of Overeaters Anonymous in conjunction with weight loss surgery support group and a nutritionist to stay on the beam. You did a wonderful thing by reaching out here. I still believe support is key. No one understand what happens to us like those of us who have been through it. Barix in Langhorne has a meeting this Saturday from 11 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. -- open to everyone!
Blessings, Jill
WLS 5/31/07. Maintaining a weight loss of 141 pounds and feeling amazing!
I've been gone too long also. This has been the first time I've signed on in a long time and I'm happy to see my WLS friends are still on. I will be joining the Over Fifty blog also!!!
https://eat2beat2.eventbrite.com
14 pounds lost before surgery. My first ticker is when I hit onderland: this was my goal when I started on this journey. I want to focus on that right now...once I get there I can reevaluate.
My second ticker is my dream goal. Even if I only visit there for a short time, it would be nice to see that number just once. I am pretty sure I'll need plastics to hit this goal.
on 9/23/13 8:12 pm
That was my insurance and they were great at the time. BC of NEPA aka First Priority Health. Keep in mind every plan is different and if it is through work employers tend to customize their plan options.
At the time of my surgery if I went to a "Center of Excellence" the process was streamlined.
"If I only had three words of advice, they would be, Tell the Truth. If got three more words, I'd add, all the time."
— Randy Pausch
Jan,
Been a while since I posted on this board, I do post regularly on the Over Fifty Forum, which has a lot of old timers (years post-op), who support one another in various ways, through accountability threads such as What are you Eating and Commitment to Moving. . . it's all about trying to encourage one another through transparency, no one, at least not on the board, ever makes a negative comment, it's just many of us need to hold ourselves accountable and that's what we're trying to do.
There are some really dedicated people who've gone on about their business and are doing amazingly well,but then there are a good many of us who've taken a detour, the good thing about detours is that usually you can find you way back to where you need to be.
So if you'd like to join the party, come on over to Over Fifty Forum or just stay in touch. . .
Hugs, Laureen
My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . . It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . . Laureen
"Success is a journey, not a destination." Ben Sweetland
I currently have Medical Assistance for Workers with Disabilities - specifically Amerihealth Mercy (now Amerihealth Caritas). I called them to ask if they cover DS (they covered my lap-band). They had me call back with the CPT? codes and I found as many as I could online and they booed them all. I was looking into UPMC For You and I found this doc http://www.upmchealthplan.com/pdf/PandP/MP.040.pdf which makes it seem like they cover it, but because I am not a member when I call they are like well we miiiiight cover it iiiiiif..... Like, just tell me yes we have ever or have not ever covered a lap band to ds revision. Also, other than Abington Hospital there are no other vetted DS surgeons in PA so it will most likely be out of network as they must provide out of network service if they do not have 2 providers in the service area. I have been researching Greenbaum and Roslin as they are within a few hours of me. The only thing UPMC would tell me is that your PCP just writes a letter telling them the name of the surgeon and they follow through with the rest of it. On that note I definitely meet medical criteria - BMI is 53, sleep apnea, HTN, Type II Diabetes, high cholesterol.
HW - 366+/1stSW - 325/CW - 301/GW - 200,
Lap-banded 3-5-2008, planning for revision to RNY
J.A.C.+M poly w/ child