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bvohl
on 7/27/12 9:48 pm
Topic: RE: OT: prayers for Sharon's son
I heard about this on the news! What a horrible tragedy!! I hope they caught the person who did this!!!!

I will pray for him and his family!

Beth
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Patricia R.
on 7/27/12 9:31 pm - Perry, MI
Topic: RE: OT: prayers for Sharon's son
Hi Susan,
While I wasn't at the Barix meeting, I'll be sure to pray for this family.  

Hugs,
Trish

Seek always to do some good, somewhere. Every man has to seek in his own way to realize his true worth. You must give some time to your fellow man. For remember, you don't live in a world all your own. Your brothers are here too.
Albert Schweitzer
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cleos_mom
on 7/27/12 4:08 pm - phila., PA
Topic: OT: prayers for Sharon's son
 If any of u were at the Barix meeting 2 months ago and met the Zumba instructor that gave the demonstration that night.

Her son John Wa**** by a hit run driver last week and is in very critical condition he is is end stage,if you could just  pray for her n her family that God gives them the strength to get thru this, this is so tragic
Thanks Susan










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Laureen S.
on 7/26/12 10:25 pm - Maple Shade, NJ
Topic: Crosspost: Good One, Joke first, but read it all the way thru

Silly thoughts

Posted: 25 Jul 2012 02:34 AM PDT

So my mom sent this to me the other day:

I don't know WHY I didn't figure this out sooner I use shampoo in the shower! When I wash my hair, the shampoo runs down my whole body, and printed very clearly on the shampoo label is this warning:

"FOR EXTRA BODY AND VOLUME"

No wonder I have been gaining weight! Well! I have gotten rid of that shampoo and I am going to start showering with Dawn dish soap instead. Its label reads

"DISSOLVES FAT THAT IS OTHERWISE DIFFICULT TO REMOVE."

Problem solved!

Funny, right?  And we all know it's a joke.   There's no way changing up which soap is running across your body is going to solve a complex issue like the multitude of behaviors and neurochemical processes that work together to cause us to gain weight.

And yet....

Isn't the joke the exact same idea behind the thinking that goes into picking a diet/weight loss plan???

Does any diet address the environment, social, biochemical, physiological aspects to our weight?  NO!

You know how all of those things are addressed?  By chipping away at the aspects of our behavior that don't support our health....everyday....until we die (or can live at the weight we are).  There are no quick fixes.  Even bariatric surgery fails (in the long-term) more(much more) than it succeeds.

You know why?  Because people are trying to get what they want without changing their behaviors in the long-term.  Because they can't reconcile that they need to eat less and move more.  Less sugar.  More veggies.  Less processed "food" and more cooking.  Less eating out and more eating at your own table.

There is no quick fix -- don't get sucked into trying to live a joke.


My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . .  It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . .  Laureen

"Success is a journey, not a destination."  Ben Sweetland

Laureen S.
on 7/26/12 10:23 pm - Maple Shade, NJ
Topic: Crosspost: Are you on your list of priorities?

Who's on your priority list?...or more importantly, who's not??

Posted: 26 Jul 2012 02:35 AM PDT

Have you ever realized:

"I haven't learned yet how to put myself on my list of priorities."  Notice I didn't suggest putting yourself first; I just want you get on the list. --Sarah Ban Breathnach

Are you on your list?  I can say with almost complete certainty, you are not at the top of your list (otherwise you wouldn't be reading this blog).  But are you written in somewhere?

We all know we should take better care of ourselves -- mentally and physically.  But when it comes to actually making that happen, it seems like there isn't ever any time, right?

It's my assertion that there is time -- you're already spending that time and we can reroute it so you can get more bang from your buck.

Paying attention to the food you're eating (when you're eating it) is a great way to put yourself on your priority list.

Choosing foods that sound great -- and then spending the extra 2 or 3 minutes during a quick lunch to appreciate the taste, texture, color, etc. can give you the chance to nurture yourself. 

We have to take time to eat.  What if, by spending a little conscious effort on experiencing the foods, we can reach our healthy weight AND take care of ourselves mentally and physically?  Wouldn't that be worth the time you put into it?


My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . .  It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . .  Laureen

"Success is a journey, not a destination."  Ben Sweetland

Laureen S.
on 7/26/12 10:18 pm - Maple Shade, NJ
Topic: Friday - Whatcha Eating Today?
Well here we are, another close to the work week, well for many of us that is. . .  Today's plan is as follows:

B:  Eggbeat omlet made with brocolli and red peppers and l/f swiss w/w gutted everything bagel

S:  What I don't finish from breakfast

L:  Chicken and veggie homemade stir fry

S:  Homemade fruit salad

D:  Chicken and veggies

S:  Watermelon

Vitamins, Calcium supplements and lots of water. . .  have a wonderful day and a great weekend!


My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . .  It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . .  Laureen

"Success is a journey, not a destination."  Ben Sweetland

Laureen S.
on 7/26/12 4:22 am - Maple Shade, NJ
Topic: RE: Facing the Ugliness
Lisa,

I was very excited today, because I was able to change the my sticker and for the first time in quite a while I am in the 170s, woo hoo. . .  a ways to go before I get where I was happiest, but it is progress we aim for now, isn't it and in the past 2 months I've dropped 5 lbs. and while to some it does not seem like a lot, I was told by Elena, the nutritionist at Barix, it could take me up to a year to get to where I was, so I am now closer by 5 lbs. . .  and I expect to do more before my 5 year surgiversary, my goal for then is to be closer to 170. . .

Yay us, the truth is not easy to tell, but, for me personally, I lied to myself for years and look at where it took me. . .

Hugs, Laureen


My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . .  It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . .  Laureen

"Success is a journey, not a destination."  Ben Sweetland

LisaAC
on 7/26/12 2:50 am - Philadelphia, PA
Topic: RE: Facing the Ugliness
Thanks for the support, Laureen, and thanks for sharing of your own journey so frankly.

Lisa

"The important thing is this: To be able at any moment to sacrifice what we are for what we could become."
Laureen S.
on 7/25/12 10:30 pm, edited 7/26/12 10:19 pm - Maple Shade, NJ
Topic: Thursday - Whatcha Eating Today?
Happy Thursday everyone. . . and today it is a happy one for me, as my scale is showing a downward progress and I am finally back in the 170s, as part of my maintenance, I weigh myself almost daily in the mornings, it keeps me in tune with my body and logging my food choices here with you all has helped me in a positive manner, so I am grateful to share my food plan and to those of you who look in, as well as those who participate. . .  so here it goes, at 4 years 9 months post-op, my plans today are as follows. . .

B:  1.5 ricotta apple pancakes, along with some watermelon

S:  Some pretzel crisps (single serving) with laughing cow cheese spread on them, a 1/4 cup of homemade fruit salad consisting of mango, cantalope, watermelon and blueberries

L:  Chicken, tomatoes, red onion in balsamic vinegar and half of a whole wheat portguese roll, gutted

S: Fruit salad

D:  Sushi

S:  Biscotti

Vitamins, calcium supplements and plenty of water, today promises to be a hot one, please remember to stay hydrated!!!


My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . .  It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . .  Laureen

"Success is a journey, not a destination."  Ben Sweetland

lollipop_candy_girl
on 7/25/12 4:43 pm - Confluence, PA
RNY on 11/13/12
Topic: Has anyone had Dr. Victor Novak from Somerset?

I have been meeting with Dr. Novak since March 21st and really like him.  Was just wondering if anyone from here has had him do their surgery?  I read some of his reviews on here under his profile but they were from 2006 wanted to know how things have gone recently? Thanks

Highest Weight - 354(March 29, 2012) Day of Surgery 292 (Nov. 13, 2012)

                    

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