teenage girls ... arrrrgggghhhhh

 It's never too late for input, Cheryl.  I am at such a loss anymore that any advice is good advice.  

I am going to call the place where she has received counseling to see what kind of peer groups are available.  I have also (re)started the process to find a big sister for her through Big Brothers/Big Sisters.  

I am so frustrated with everything going on.  I just want to sit and cry sometimes... and I do.. I try really hard not to do it when she's around.  But that doesn't always work.