The WOW I've been waiting for

Hmmm....well, if he made you feel THAT uncomfortable put a back-up plan in place. Have a friend call you on your cell a half hour or so after you're meeting him with an 'emergency' - if it's going well with the guy you can give them an 'all clear' signal - if not tell him a friend has an emergency and you have to go. Don't stay around him if he makes you feel too uncomfortable - I know you'll trust your senses. I hope it works out and he's not creepy scary guy...

Congrats on the Wow Nan ! Maybe the guy just had some nervous energy being around such a pretty lady and he came out looking a little on the creepy side.  Check the Megan's Law link on the PA State Police website.  As long as he's not on it, I would go for it and have fun.

Lisa

I just heard myself snicker again.   I think he had something else going on but I won't say.  First I have to find out his last name.

Turns out the guy was a nut job.  There is no car show, he was just trying to cop a feel that day, and either he didn't like it, or he got what he wanted.  He blew me off today.

At my age, almost 52, it's easy to spot weirdos. First off a really really decent guy would NEVER oogle you openly in public - that is a guy that has no manners and is not embarrassed that he has no manners. Real good men at least attempt to hide what they are looking at because they know it's not the right thing to do. Ditto for a guy that you JUST MET who professes gushingly how beautiful you are, what a great figure you have, etc. He's testing you to see how "easy" you are, or at least how naive you are. They actually prefer naive, because you have no experience to draw on to determine whether or not the guy is a dreg. And I would run screaming as fast as I could to get as far away as possible from ANY guy who tried to TOUCH me, let alone HUG me within minutes of my meeting them! Those kinds of guys want one thing only - their own gratification. You want a guy who wants to KNOW you - what you think, how you feel, what your interests are, what your life views are - before he EVER invades your space in an intimate way. I know I'm old - but I went all through high school with my husband before we started dating in senior year - he knew me really well. It was our 3rd date and then he asked if he could kiss me good night and it was just a friendly polite good night I had a good time and I really like you alot but I don't want to offend you in any way kind of a kiss. A fairy tale? Maybe - but that was so impressive to me after fighting off pawing hormone driven morons for so long that I decided to keep him and married him a year later - this Sept. will be 33 years.

Wait for the guy *****ally wants YOU - all of you - not just that part that will satisfy him the fastest.

Thanks, I'm a little older but not experienced at all.  I was just enjoying the wow factor, but he ruined that yesterday.