The WOW I've been waiting for

OMG!! I went to K-Mart a few hours ago and this guy was oogling me. He was staring so hard I was embarrassed.  He started the conversation at the check out counter and then he walked alongside of me outside the store and flirted his ass off.  Needless to say, we have a date.  It felt soooo good to have someone look at me that way, but a little creepy at the same time.  The date isn't till the 3rd weekend of the month (my choice), and it will be the car show and then dinner. We exchanged phone numbers and he wouldn't leave without a hug.  I hope I was wrong about feeling creepy, but it was sooo flattering. He kept staring at my butt and hips, I asked him if I had ink on me or something.  He said I was so attractive that he couldn't help but stare.  He also said this must happen to me all the time (I had to snicker at that one).  He asked me to remove my tinted glasses so he could see my eyes.  WOW, please God let him be normal and not a psycho.  I wonder how many times he has done this before.   Anyone know how to run a background check on somebody to check for wierd crap?

If you're willing to put out a few dollars, you can google his name and phone number, and then whatever program you have will probably give you several people of the same name, and you can decide whether you want to pay to find out about him.  You can pretty well find out about ANYONE on the internet! There's also ways to check about criminal behaviors, too.  Probably would cost more to do.

And trust your instincts.  I'm glad you talked and exchanged numbers, but I'd be weirded out by the insistence of the hug, myself.

The Car Show sounds like a good choice for a date.  If you decide you don't want to go to dinner, you can always say "I'm sorry, I'm just too tired".

And enjoy!

Nan,
STOP IT. You are smokin' hot and I am proud of you that you took a chance. It's just a date you are not marrying him. Enjoy the date and you do have a great ass now go and strut if off. LOL

Hey Nan,

If you want to PM me his name I'll check to make sure he's not a felon in PA :o)

Good luck on the date.

T

Definitely find someone to do a background check... too many psychos out there!  Congrats on the oogling!  It is so much fun to catch a guys eye! 

That is awesome Nan! Congrats! You can check the sex offenders list as they have to be registered - am believing for you that all checking comes out clean! Am so happy for you!

Thanks everyone for understanding how creepy that could have felt along with the WOW.

That is a great WOW.  Gettin' picked up on in the store and that he followed you out!!!  What a great feelin' that must be.

Sounds to me like the old 'fluffy insecurities' are creeping into Nan's mind??? It doesn't hurt to be cautious but hey, relax and enjoy the wonderful flirtation and go to the car show - and like someone else said - if you're still having that 'creepy' feeling after spending some time with him there then beg off with a headache or you're just too tired - but you've worked your ass off (literally!!) and you deserve this kind of attention - don't let it overwhelm you - relax and enjoy it, lady!!

I guess you had to be there to see the way he looked at me, you'd have gotten the creeps too.