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Nicole0216
on 5/3/10 6:40 am - Lancaster, PA

Heffner

Stephen R., suddenly on May 1, 2010. Beloved son of Robert and Kathleen (nee Gibbons) Heffner, lovig borther of Elizabeth Heffner Majewski and Matthew Heffner. Family and friends are invited to his viewing Thursday 7-9 PM and Friday 8:30 AM at the Fitzpatrick Funeral Home, 425 Lyceum Ave Rox, and to participate in his funeral mass 10 AM at St John the Baptist Church. Int. Calvary Cem

Nicole0216
on 5/3/10 7:20 am - Lancaster, PA

RNY on 10/03/06

I spoke with Bobby and he said that he thought it would be ok if I slipped in and out at the funeral mass on friday. It is a large church I don't think anyone will see me, and I can feel like i am a part of it

Pam Hart
on 5/3/10 4:52 pm - Easton, PA

RNY on 10/30/07

I'm VERY glad to hear you will be allowed to come into the church and also help your grieving as well

Instead of complaining that the rosebush has thorns, be happy that the thorn bush has roses.

Liz R.
on 5/3/10 8:24 am - Easton, PA

RNY on 01/30/07

I am so glad that Bobby thinks it will be OK for you to go to the funeral. Afterall the difference that the two of you had had nothing to do with Stephen - i am sure that you loved him as your own while he was in your life and you shouldn't be faulted for wanting to be there now for him.

*hugs*

Liz