OT: When it rains...
just a vent.
sometimes it seems like the universe is conspiring against me. Even my friends laugh at "the goeller luck" when a streak starts. The past monthh is a great example.
In the past 3 weeks:
* I've had emergency surgery for appendicitis
* My husband has had a "nervous breakdown" (severe manic episode from his bipolar) We're still recovering from that.
* The custom-order sink for the kitchen was found to be cracked and had to be reordered... discovered, of course, when the contractor was here to actually install it. (Still waiting for the replacement to come in.)
* I had a car accident on the way home from work today - car had to be towed. No one was hurt (thankfully) but that's going to be a $500 deductible and who knows how long without the car.
i'm sure there were a few other minor setbacks during the same timespan - just can't recall them off the top of my head.
I'm doing ok... I should say WE'RE doing ok. I have not been eating out of stress or frustration, and have been dealing with stuff ok, which is completely new for me - and I'm still amazed by it. But I'm tired and emotionally/mentally/physically exhausted. I'm really hoping that this streak is over.
I'm continuing to look for the bright side of things and to not let stuff get to me. Many of you have become friends in the past year and your support has been essential in keeping me sane through all this. I just want you to know that it's so appreciated and recognized. You've all been collecting good karma.
Karen
sometimes it seems like the universe is conspiring against me. Even my friends laugh at "the goeller luck" when a streak starts. The past monthh is a great example.
In the past 3 weeks:
* I've had emergency surgery for appendicitis
* My husband has had a "nervous breakdown" (severe manic episode from his bipolar) We're still recovering from that.
* The custom-order sink for the kitchen was found to be cracked and had to be reordered... discovered, of course, when the contractor was here to actually install it. (Still waiting for the replacement to come in.)
* I had a car accident on the way home from work today - car had to be towed. No one was hurt (thankfully) but that's going to be a $500 deductible and who knows how long without the car.
i'm sure there were a few other minor setbacks during the same timespan - just can't recall them off the top of my head.
I'm doing ok... I should say WE'RE doing ok. I have not been eating out of stress or frustration, and have been dealing with stuff ok, which is completely new for me - and I'm still amazed by it. But I'm tired and emotionally/mentally/physically exhausted. I'm really hoping that this streak is over.
I'm continuing to look for the bright side of things and to not let stuff get to me. Many of you have become friends in the past year and your support has been essential in keeping me sane through all this. I just want you to know that it's so appreciated and recognized. You've all been collecting good karma.
Karen
Karen I absolutely agree with you when it rains it so pours! Won't make this a competition oh who has the ****tier luck! George was laid off in dec had union hassels and we just got our ins. medical re-instated a week ago and due to union aggravation both of us almost had a meltdown so Karen you have my never ending hugs just remember one day at a time also applies to us and one thing at a time. This streak has gotta end!!!! I am going to stay out of the negative zone so I will be glad to hold hands with you anytime. OMG I am glad to hear you are ok from the car accident thank God for huge favors! There are days where I so want to paint a bull's eye on the wall and just ram my head into it to take the pain away but I think Linda one day at a time. Hang in there sweetie.
Thanks, Linda... Yeah, it's tough to not just dwell on the bad stuff. important to get it out and vent it, but then let it go. Eddie's been out of work since last July's layoff, which I think contributed to the manic meltdown and has definitely been adding to our overall stress level. But ... gotta always find the bright spots in the day, stay out of the negative, and see the good. Consider this a virtual hand-holding! And... one day at a time... one hour at a time if needed...
Karen
Karen
Oh Karen you ain't kidding. When it rains it does pour. I hope you are okay sorry to hear about your accident. Everything is replaceable your health is not. Kudos to you for not letting stress throw you off the course. You truly ROCK and are such an inspiration to so many of us. In the interim cyberhugs coming your way. Take Care:)
-Shilpa
People comment on my over 100 pound weight loss and attribute it to my WILLpower, but it is my WANTpower: I WANT to be thin and healthy more than anything else!
you sure have ahd your share this month, but when you think about it you are so blessed in many ways.
1.they caught your appendicits before it got worse,
2.your husband is recovering
3.the sink cracked before it was installed and not 6 months after
4. and you were not hurt in the car accident
5. you have not turned to food for comfort
someone has the overlooks on you it will get better
GOOD LUCK
Susan
1.they caught your appendicits before it got worse,
2.your husband is recovering
3.the sink cracked before it was installed and not 6 months after
4. and you were not hurt in the car accident
5. you have not turned to food for comfort
someone has the overlooks on you it will get better
GOOD LUCK
Susan
oh man Karen.. seems like you have had a pretty eventful month. Sorry this has all happened to you. Thankfully, you are a strong person (couple) and can get through this. I also agree with the things Sue said.. the things happened WHEN and HOW they did for a reason.
Now moving past them with your great attitude is what matters most.
I can never come up with an eloquent response to postings, but know that I am thinking of you and hope that your luck gets better.
Love you!
Now moving past them with your great attitude is what matters most.
I can never come up with an eloquent response to postings, but know that I am thinking of you and hope that your luck gets better.
Love you!
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