HOPE

Lisa H.
on 1/13/10 6:53 pm - Whitehall, PA
Just as I was about to post about last night's appointment with the psychologist, I saw this email from Spark People and had to post it here for all of us.  I am going to print this one and hang it somewhere as a reminder. 

Hope

You are here - there is a reason. You are here - you want something better.
You are here - you have a chance.
Take it - grasp it and hold on with all your might.
There will be reasons why you can't - but for every one there is a reason why you will.

Move forward. Be better today. More active, eat smarter, be proud of yourself. One hour at a time adds up to a day, days at a time will equal a week - the weeks will blend - good habits take hold - results will show - it is hard to see 12 weeks from now - but I am here to tell you it's worth it - so are many others.

There are ups and downs, plateaus and set backs - these come with change. But a formerly obese 50 year old spent 75 minutes on the treadmill today and then did his strength training. He had a well proportioned healthy breakfast, half a turkey sandwich and a salad for lunch, fruit for a snack (not a fruit snack) and is planning a dinner of grilled fish, a vegetable, a salad and an English muffin. Friends - that is evolutionary - it took 3 months to take hold - but 23 months later it still works.

Why post this here? Hope.

You are facing a tough challenge - but tough is very different than impossible. You will face difficulties, uncooperative family members, time issues, self doubt, years of bad habits - but look to those here who are winning the battle - they faced down those difficulties and often use them as motivation.

Need help -ask for it. Want to succeed - find your motivation - write it down - think of it every time you are tempted. This is about a better lifestyle not a diet. Diets don't work - but a better approach to eating combined with more and sustained activity can change your life. The resources are here, the support is here.

Lastly don't be afraid - anything you do is likely better than what you have been doing - be a little better every day - fear will defeat the process.

You can do this - and no one can do it for you.

Grab the hope - hold on tight. Start your improvements and then reach out and help someone else.

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Pam Hart
on 1/13/10 6:57 pm - Easton, PA
AWESOME, Lisa!  Thanks for sharing!
Instead of complaining that the rosebush has thorns, be happy that the thorn bush has roses.
jojobear98
on 1/13/10 8:05 pm - Gettysburg, PA
Lastly don't be afraid - anything you do is likely better than what you have been doing - be a little better every day - fear will defeat the process.


I  that one! Thanks for sharing.

When life hands you lemons, ask for tequila & salt and give me a call!


 

 

Lisa H.
on 1/13/10 8:14 pm - Whitehall, PA
That is an awesome line.... post that in your car so when you are about to drive PAST the gym, you go in instead!! 

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jojobear98
on 1/14/10 12:41 am - Gettysburg, PA
LOL, to be honest..........I cannot go to the gym today, and am bummed about it. I am really enjoying it. (did I say that?)

When life hands you lemons, ask for tequila & salt and give me a call!


 

 

Lisa H.
on 1/14/10 1:17 am - Whitehall, PA
I was just like you in the beginning.. hated it at first, but then loved it.  I'm kind of in between right now.  I need a workout buddy!   Starting to take more classes so I can meet more people.

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RICHIERIMM
on 1/13/10 8:28 pm - BUSHKILL, PA
LISA

      IT IS GREAT .  THANKS FOR SHARING  I MAY USE IT
RICHIE      WE MAKE OUR OWN DESTINY

  REMEMBER WHERE YOU CAME FROM TO GET HERE

                                          
ARIMM NIMH

    
chelebeth
on 1/13/10 11:06 pm - Danville, PA
Lisa,

Thanks for posting this.  I really needed it.

Chele
 CHELE    .....Nothing changes if nothing changes....
Life is short ...forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, 
laugh uncontrollably...
and never regret anything that made you smile.
 
     
(deactivated member)
on 1/13/10 11:09 pm - Stevensville, MD
Love it!~
shanaduck
on 1/13/10 11:52 pm - Lopatcong, NJ
Thanks for posting this Lisa, it's really wonderful, a keeper!

Elizabeth
            Surgery Weight  (1/25/10) 265 - Current Weight - 184 1/1/12 - Goal ????
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