OT: Changing our Perspectives

Laureen S.
on 9/25/09 12:43 am, edited 9/25/09 12:46 am - Maple Shade, NJ
Thought I'd share this as it hits something we discuss on here from time to time. . .

I don't think you're suddenly going to begin to look at the world with new eyes when you're eighty if you haven't been doing it when you're thirty.

--Janice Clark


We are creatures of habit as evidenced by our getting stuck in old viewpoints long after they have quit serving us. However, that fact doesn't restrict us for all time. Anytime we want to cultivate a new idea, an alternative approach to a situation, we are free to do so. Janice may be right regarding some people she has known, but we are capable of freshening our perspective at any age.

We have all known some elderly men and women who have the spirit and enthusiasm of the very young. Unfortunately, we have also known the reverse. How sad to observe the forty or fifty year old person who has quit living. Their whining belies their age. Who will we be? The choice is always available to us. And we can remake it as often as we wish.

What a relief to know that if we're old and resentful today, we still have the opportunity to be young and full of laughter tomorrow. We maybe can't do everything we used to do, but this decision is still in our power.

I will open my eyes to whatever I choose to see today. Yesterday's experiences have only the power I give them.


My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . .  It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . .  Laureen

"Success is a journey, not a destination."  Ben Sweetland

Pam Hart
on 9/25/09 1:29 am - Easton, PA
Thanks for sharing!
Instead of complaining that the rosebush has thorns, be happy that the thorn bush has roses.
kgoeller
on 9/25/09 2:15 am - Doylestown, PA
Laureen,

What a wonderful perspective to share.  And you're right on the money, too!

Thanks!
karen
keri2008
on 9/25/09 2:32 am - PA
Thanks for posting!  Always too easy to slip into our patterned thoughts and behaviors.

regards, keri

Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass... it's about learning to dance in the rain.  --Author Uknown


 

RoseyNo
on 9/25/09 3:11 am
Laureen

Thanks for sharing this!  You're always such a delight!

Debbie


 

LindaScrip
on 9/25/09 7:18 am
no truer words.  My theory is stop complaining now we'll have plenty of time later and use the energy for better things and appreciate what we have now. Life is what you make it.
chelebeth
on 9/25/09 9:48 am - Danville, PA
so true!  Thanks for sharing this.
 CHELE    .....Nothing changes if nothing changes....
Life is short ...forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, 
laugh uncontrollably...
and never regret anything that made you smile.
 
     
jackie j
on 9/26/09 11:19 am - Glenmoore, PA
Laureen, I have so enjoyed watching your positive growth and outlook for the last few years.  You really inspire me to keep pushing.  Thanks for printing this.

    Jackie J.    hugs.gif image by LISAH900   ribbon.gif image by Ready4Achange  

1 choice @ a time > 1 day @ a time.   Slow to Succeed is still Success ;-)

 

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