Prayers are needed..

for my family and the death of my unborn son today. I was 18 weeks pregnant and there was something wrong with our son so we had to make a tough decision not to proceed ahead with the pregnancy. I hope that I still have everyone's support and I hope to god no family OR woman would ever have to go thru what we had to go thru. I love each and every one of you and I hope and pray that I will see him in heaven one day. I know god will forgive me and I just need to forgive myself which might come in time. God Willing. In the meanwhile I will hopefully see some of you tomorrow. I am physically okay just not okay emotionally.

Oh Shilpa, I am so sorry.  I am sure this was a very difficult decision for you to make.  I am here for you 100%.  You did what you thought was right and that is what matters.  If you ever need to talk, you know we are all here for you.  You can call me anytime, as well.  610-504-3867.

You will see him up in heaven when it is your time.  I will pray for you to be at peace emotionally.  Just know that we are here for you.

You know you will be in my prayers and I am here for you as I have been all along my support is not going anywhere.
No one on this boards has to walk in you and your husbands shoes so if they chose to not support you then you really do not need them in your life. 

Try not to beat yourself up emotionally and you have an amazing man by your side willing to hold you up when you need the help and then you have us your chosen family.

Oh Shilpa, I'm so sorry.  I wish I could take away your pain.  Consider yourself hugged and supported!!!  

Julia

Shilpa, I am sooo sorry for your loss.  I can't imagine what you are going through, but know you have my support 100%.  Prayers coming your way.

Heather G

Shilpa, I'm so sorry to hear this.
That is very difficult to endure.
My prayers are said for your family and son.
I'm sure you made the right decision.
Forgive yourself. God does.
It is something that wasn't meant to be.
A Mother wouldn't want her child to have a poor or diminished quality of life.
There is nothing I can say to help you feel better, I support you.
Take care of yourself. Be good to yourself. Susie

Shilpa - So sorry that you had to go through this. Of course you still have our love and support and God WILL forgive you.

*hugs*

Liz

Thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. 

k

Shilpa,

You may not understand this, but, everything happens for a reason.  The decision was made because God led you to that decision.  If it wasn't meant to be, the decision would have been out of your hands.  I pray for you and your family for inner strength to make it over this very emotional part of your lives.  We all love you and support you.  I will see you tomorrow, if you come.

 

Nan

Sometimes, I am not as eloquent as some of our friends here.   But, understand this......I respect  your decision and am here for you.

With the love your husband and friends, please allow yourself to come to peace with all this. 

Sincerely,

Jayne