A parting thought I shared with my best friend
There won't be any reason for ANY of those seats to be taken or to be saved....just the one on the losers bench we have right here for you (although...I was neurotic enough to not just tell people "if things go wrong" type of statements...but I wrote letters out that no one knew about and gave them to the nurse in the back and informed her to give them to my husband should anything happen....so I totally relate)
Keep that sense of humor...this is the best decision ever - but there are those moments that you go "really?"
Yay!!!!!
Instead of complaining that the rosebush has thorns, be happy that the thorn bush has roses. 
