EVERYONE CAN GO **** THEMSELVES!!!
YOU KNOW WHAT I CAME TO THIS SITE BEFORE WHEN I STARTED MY JOURNEY AND THE FIRST POST I EVER ******G MADE SOMEONE WAS RUDE TO ME. I WAS NOT GOING TO USE THIS SITE AND COME BACK because of the rude remarks. I went onto another site talking about how rude mutha******s are on this ******g site!!!! Everyone ******g agreed with me and you know something I figured Id give it a try again adn well...******g ppl are still the same and rude.
I am sorry you feel that way. The PA board is known as one of the best and most supportive boards on OH but we will not coddle you if you are not following the program. This surgery is not a miracle or a cure in a bottle. YOU HAVE TO WORK THE TOOL AND THE PROGRAM. YOU WILL NOT BE BABIED HERE.
I think you have had doubts and issues with the surgery from the beginning and because of that perhaps you are finding the journey harder than most. I think you need to evaluate where you are and where you want to be with the tool and the benefits of this surgery.
I will however say this to you--DON'T YOU EVER USE FOUL LANGUAGE WHEN POSTING TO THIS BOARD EVER AGAIN. THESE PEOPLE HAVE TRIED TO HELP YOU AND YOU HAVE IGNORED OR BLOWN OFF VERY VALUABLE AND INSIGHTFUL ADVICE FROM THOSE OF US THAT HAVE BEEN THERE. THESE PEOPLE ARE MY FRIENDS AND I WILL NOT HAVE YOU TALK TO ANYONE IN THAT MANNER.
YOU HAD THE SURGERY NOW IT IS UP TO YOU TO LIVE THE LIFESTYLE. AND MAYBE IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO GROW UP A LITTLE TOO.
I think you have had doubts and issues with the surgery from the beginning and because of that perhaps you are finding the journey harder than most. I think you need to evaluate where you are and where you want to be with the tool and the benefits of this surgery.
I will however say this to you--DON'T YOU EVER USE FOUL LANGUAGE WHEN POSTING TO THIS BOARD EVER AGAIN. THESE PEOPLE HAVE TRIED TO HELP YOU AND YOU HAVE IGNORED OR BLOWN OFF VERY VALUABLE AND INSIGHTFUL ADVICE FROM THOSE OF US THAT HAVE BEEN THERE. THESE PEOPLE ARE MY FRIENDS AND I WILL NOT HAVE YOU TALK TO ANYONE IN THAT MANNER.
YOU HAD THE SURGERY NOW IT IS UP TO YOU TO LIVE THE LIFESTYLE. AND MAYBE IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO GROW UP A LITTLE TOO.
Laura
"Two roads diverged in a wood..and I took the one less travelled by and that has made all the difference." -Robert Frost
Over 176+ lbs lost since surgery!! :-)
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#1. The language and obsessive angry CAPS LOCK screaming is NOT appreciated, nor is it tolerated here on the PA board. Take it somewhere else.
#2. People have tried to reach out to you, offer you support to the point that it's tiring, and you not only don't take their advice, but you put them down. again... not appreciated, nor tolerated here on this board.
#3. We're not speaking out of our behinds... ALL of us have gone through the surgery, and either are where you are, or have been where you are. Maybe you should suck up your pride, and trucker-mouth, and actually listen, and appreciate what people who have gone through EXACTLY what you're going through are trying to advise you to do.
#4. Do NOT ask for support if you don't want the truth. There's no hand holding here... we'll help you through whatever you need, but sometimes the truth hurts.
If you can't see yourself doing any of the above 4 things, you should probably find another source of support, because not only have you embarrassed yourself, but I'm pretty sure you have exausted the AMAZING support you could have found on this board if you didn't put people who know what they're talking about are saying. I'm actually embarrassed for you...
Suck it up girlfriend, apologize for the extremely childish behavior or move it on out.
#2. People have tried to reach out to you, offer you support to the point that it's tiring, and you not only don't take their advice, but you put them down. again... not appreciated, nor tolerated here on this board.
#3. We're not speaking out of our behinds... ALL of us have gone through the surgery, and either are where you are, or have been where you are. Maybe you should suck up your pride, and trucker-mouth, and actually listen, and appreciate what people who have gone through EXACTLY what you're going through are trying to advise you to do.
#4. Do NOT ask for support if you don't want the truth. There's no hand holding here... we'll help you through whatever you need, but sometimes the truth hurts.
If you can't see yourself doing any of the above 4 things, you should probably find another source of support, because not only have you embarrassed yourself, but I'm pretty sure you have exausted the AMAZING support you could have found on this board if you didn't put people who know what they're talking about are saying. I'm actually embarrassed for you...
Suck it up girlfriend, apologize for the extremely childish behavior or move it on out.
Success is a journey... not a destination! 
I am very sorry you feel this way. No one condemed you for venting - heck yea - we all have spouse issues and that's the great thing about the PA board we can vent. There are some awesome people on here who are amazingly supportive, that being said they are ass kickers if you aren't following the rules - that's what some people need. Norm's told me many times to suck it up and do my exercise and to stop making excuses - he does it because he cares and wants me to succeed. I've called Pam at 5am to share exciting news and know I could call her at 2 in the morning to vent or cry if I was having a bad time (and I did when I had my miscarriage)
I wish you all the success you deserve and if you can't find what you need here maybe the NY board will be better to you. I would be curious to hear what Dr P says when you fill her in on what is going on though.
I wish you all the success you deserve and if you can't find what you need here maybe the NY board will be better to you. I would be curious to hear what Dr P says when you fill her in on what is going on though.
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