There is Definately life after Separation!!!

Good Afternoon Pa!!

Well I can say that I have making progress!!

I was finally able to get a pic on my profile and update my surgeon. I found it to be easier to copy a picture into paint, save it as a gif file, then check the attributes for the size. It usually only takes a slight modification to the size to work.

I met Dr C at the seminar that was held at Magee last evening. She is a very thorough in answering questions. I got to tell you, it has really helped me alot chatting with so many of you to be able to ask questions at the seminar which was appreciated.

Again, I want to thank everyone for the kind thoughts.

Enough about me, how is everyone doin?

Dianna

Dianna,

You sound much better, glad you are feeling more hopeful and at ease today.

Best wishes, Laureen

Of course there is! But it always takes a little time, self reflection, and thought to get to that point. Glad you are doing well! And glad to see a pic!

Dianne,

So glad to hear that you're doing better!  I know it's so traumatic to go through, but you're named after a Warrior Goddess, so keep tapping that inner strength!

Your pic looks wonderful!

Karen

I am going to give you an extremely personal piece of advice which will be blunt and honest. Get to know yourself.  Being alone is not the worst thing in the world as far as a relationship. Take inventory of what is positive and spend time with yourself.  Notice I said with yourself not by-yourself.  You may be surprised at what you discover.  I can remember when my first marriage broke up and I am not going to lie I was devasated and then got involved with a crappy relationship for 8 1/2 years with someone because I was afraid to be alone and not in a relationship so when he and I finally broke up I stayed single for 3 years and I thought wow this isn't so bad and I got to know Linda again.  I wasn't so bad to know. Dianna address what you need to and do what is right for Dianna.  If you need to talk we are here or if you want to you can PM me. I think you sound really great so little baby steps and one day at a time.  I am doing ok thanks so much for asking.  Take care.