Okay what is it about family....
Family like that sucks... and I feel for ya... my family has been great about my weight loss until I tried to give some of my outfits to my mom and sister... my mom said I don't want your fat clothes... fine... but I think she is upset I weigh less than her now... but then agian I don't care lol...
but certain people in my husband's family made a comment to him... and i know you haven't seen Jeremy in person... but he isn't fat... he needs to loose about the same as your hubby and he carries it all in his tummy area... well these family members made a comment about it and well I said "oh I didn't realize that you were at your goal weight..." and I know their height... so I know what their "goal weight... and they are 15/20 pounds over weight too... now they don't say stuff like that... I'm normally blunt but sometimes it is just better to ignore them... that or just go off... really go off hehehe....