This is annoying

lauraanne715
on 6/14/09 12:11 am - Pottstown, PA

Things got much better!! He went out and got me no sugar added fudge pops!!! LOL He knew I was not happy!!!! But all is well now!!!!

Laura

Laura
"Two roads diverged in a wood..and I took the one less travelled by and that has made all the difference." -Robert Frost
Over 176+ lbs lost since surgery!! :-)
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magofa
on 6/11/09 10:29 pm - Wilkes-Barre, PA

RNY on 05/27/09

Mine came home last night oooohing and ahhhing about the delicious lasagna my mom made for them for dinner. I actually broke down and cried. I'm having such a hard time. I'm still on purees and for some reason, yesterday I was hungry. Plus I'm not losing. I know it's early out for me so I don't have all of the benefits to pull from. They can be such asses!

Bonnie
HW 248.9;SW 221; CW 138.7

lauraanne715
on 6/14/09 12:10 am - Pottstown, PA

RNY on 05/28/08

I think the best thing we can do is acknowledge our feelings and tell the other person how their actions (or lack thereof!!!) affect us and make us feel bad!! I did tell my hubby about it and he did go and get me no sugar added fudge pops --so it was good in the end!!!

Laura
"Two roads diverged in a wood..and I took the one less travelled by and that has made all the difference." -Robert Frost
Over 176+ lbs lost since surgery!! :-)
See my profile for my OH Blog!!

kgoeller
on 6/12/09 5:55 am - Doylestown, PA

RNY on 04/22/09

Laura,

You said "Normally I do not crave anything like that so I am not sure why I was so bothered by it"

My guess is that it's not the food AT ALL that was bothering you... but rather that you (and your needs) were "ignored" in the planning and execution of their cupcake feast.

I know that really riles me up when it happens, because I start either feeling sorry for myself (no one cares enough for me to take care of me like I take care of them) or crave being "included" in the experience.

Good for you for venting and not allowing "bad" behavior to creep in! Heaven knows, it ain't easy, sometimes!

karen

lauraanne715
on 6/14/09 12:08 am - Pottstown, PA

RNY on 05/28/08

Thanks Karen!!!!! It was the fact that I felt ignored and my needs were not being met that probably set me off ...that and I was uber tired from the week!!!!

Laura
"Two roads diverged in a wood..and I took the one less travelled by and that has made all the difference." -Robert Frost
Over 176+ lbs lost since surgery!! :-)
See my profile for my OH Blog!!

Shannon O.
on 6/13/09 11:24 am - Reading, PA

RNY on 09/05/07

Welcome to my world every Sunday when we eat with Jeremy's family after church... nothing for me... everything for everyone else... HELLO what about me... so I finally got tired of not having anything I completely went off and now bring my own dessert and I DON"T SHARE IT EITHER... alllllll mine... nanner nanner nanner... ha... yes I'm mean but I don't care lol!

lauraanne715
on 6/14/09 12:07 am - Pottstown, PA

RNY on 05/28/08

You crack me up!!! LOL "alllllll mine... nanner nanner nanner... ha... yes I'm mean but I don't care lol!"

Too funny I am def doing that from now on!!!!!!!!

Laura
"Two roads diverged in a wood..and I took the one less travelled by and that has made all the difference." -Robert Frost
Over 176+ lbs lost since surgery!! :-)
See my profile for my OH Blog!!

Shannon O.
on 6/14/09 4:40 am - Reading, PA

RNY on 09/05/07

well you would think that since it was family and they supported me in having the surgery that they would think of my needs for still wanting to fit in and feel normal... but my MIL is anti anything sugar free... and doesn't believe me in buying fat free everything has way higher sugar counts for stuff than normal fatty stuff... and then can't figure out why she has put on a few pounds... so blah whatever lol... so tossing out that nanner nanner nanner is completely fitting lol... and my desserts rock... sorry whole wheat crap with flax seed crap is well crap... and not dessert anyways... and she completely ruined short bread too... you can ask Jeremy lol... that stuff is to be bad for ya... not healthy lol...

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