WHAT THE FRIG AM I TO DO! SEX? might be TMI!

So,,,, i really feel like my friend has jinxed me. (we talked about this yesterday) my husband and I havent had sex in a few months (please dont ask why, thats a whole nother topic lol) anyway this morning he snuggles behind me in bed and starts ... ya know....... but doesnt finish so i look at him and say what happend? ready for this.... he says to me um well i stopped my self but did a little inside of you. (WHAT!?)  i am not taking any birth control it just makes me sick and i figure we hardly ever do it and when we do he pulls out.  So today he doesnt finish but manages to let loose a little in me. (i know a lil tmi but where else am i gonna go) now i am freaking out!!! my LMC was the end of march but  its always irrregular.   What the hell am i suppose to do  .. he says dont even worry about it. ummm  its my body not yours  im going to be cut in 9 days  what the frig was he thinking.?!

I dont know what your religous beliefs but if they allow go get the morning after pill now. It only takes ONE to get pregnant

I agree with Nicole. I would get the Plan B pill now.  They sell it over the counter at pharmacies.

might be TMI??? yikes.

I have no advice. Best of luck to you.

Yikes!! WEll better get used to condoms then... after surgery you REALLY need to be extra careful for the first 6 months!

I agree with the other girls - there is always the plan B pill....

best of luck!

Liz

I agree with those who suggested the Plan B. Even though it is sometimes referred to as "The Morning After Pill", you actually have 72 hours to take it. So, if you didn't get it today, you still have time.

I'd also mention this to your surgeon. Sounds like you definitely need a plan for birth control post-op. If hormonal birth control makes you sick, there's always an IUD or using two barrier methods at once (like condoms w/ the sponge, or with the diaphragm).

Good luck!

been there, done that.... Morning After Pill (Plan B) at CVS.  I hate doing it, but that happend to me in the beginning after my surgery and I didnt want to take any chances.