"wasting away to nothing"

I was showing my ex husband "look these are a size eight!" and he goes "yeah, you're wasting away to nothing".

nice. lol.

 

I would have said to my ex no dear I am wasting away to something.

That's a great comeback Linda.  I like it!
Gail

OOOH Good one Linda!!! She's exactly right!   You are wasting right into a great new  life!  

I was talking to someone today about how close my date is and how ready I am to do this and she said you are ready to NOT eat? And I just said that that part is only temporary.  The change it makes in me will be so worth the fight to get there!!  She agreed with that! 

Hi Lisa,
I am pre op too - 2/5...getting the same talk..."you've never been able to stick to a diet; don't you know you'll gain it back in 5 years, you can't eat .etc etc etc"...not listening but it is a distraction and negative talk...thanks for posting, nice to know I am not alone! Good luck with your surgery and pre op !

I get told that so much its sickning! I would have said like i have said to others,"Bite whats left off my ass~~ hahahaha,

My current husband has made mention of it before - let alone an ex!

I don't take offense to those comments.  It's takes a long time for OUR brains to catch up to our new selves - and it takes friends and family brains time to catch up as well.  Probably even a little more so because they can see the changes where as most of the time, we can't.  So they are constantly being shown drastic changes and they can't wrap their heads around it.

Pam

men... i tell ya i think most times i just wanna smack them with a baseball bat

Men suck.

well at least some of us have no problem expressing our opinions about the male gender.