Selfish?

I believe HE is the selfish one.  If he is basing the "destruction of what could be enjoyable" based soley on physical attributes and being fluffy or not fluffy (I will not give him the satisfaction of repeating that word) then it seems to be all about him.

And sorry to be harsh - but F&*K him.  No where near the literal sense I might add.

You are not over reacting - and personally - not only would I not consider dating him, I would probably have to think long and hard about even reconnecting and getting to know him better.  This would be the same situation be it a male or female I was trying to reconnect with.

I'm sorry you had to hear all that - and I'm glad you are sticking to your guns.  You are an incredible woman!

Pam

Loretta,
OMG - I can not believe the gall of that man.
Everyone has said it all here - he is an idiot.
You do not need "friends" like him.
Tammy

Sounds like he is projecting his selfishness on you. . .  he has his preferences, you're not it as you are today, which is beautiful, healthy and probably able to run circles around him, I'd say, one word "cyah"!.

Hugs, Laureen

You need to step away from the crazy man!! Back away quickly! No seriously I think he is very toxic and very bad for you.  You do not need this type of person in your life ....I would cease all contact with him.