Feeling Weird about this WOW

Oh I am so glad somebody else has had this strange wow moment.  I have lost 70lbs with the band and yet I cant seem to get my head around it either.  I was at a birthday party last weekend and people kept saying OMG look at you and I stood there embarassed saying "what do you mean?"  I look in the mirror and yet I see fat that I need to lose, but as someone said, even though you have changed sizes in clothing it just does not sink in.  I feel bones where I didnt know I had bones, yet again, it does not sink in.  Is there a magic moment that will make it sink in?  People say I should be proud of what I have accomplished yet I dont feel that either.
Had I been told before the surgery that I would feel this way, I would have told them no freakin way! 
Even my daughter in law (aka bridezilla) says she is so jealous of me and all I keep thinking is, wow thats probably the first time she ever felt any emotion towards me at all.........instead of being happy she is complimenting me.

Any ideas on how to get your head around this would be most helpful!!

Cheryl