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Karene C.
on 12/30/08 12:55 pm - Hillsboro, OR
Topic: RE: OSHU
Although I had my surgery at Good Sams, I feel for you and the only suggestion I have is it might take just that long to start over somewhere else. So find out what department supervises the WLS section and take it up with them. Complain as loud as you can and as often as possible. I believe someone will care enough to find out what the problem is and help you in making it right. We could right letters telling them of our displeasure regarding your treatment. We could also let them know that we will tell everyone who will listen that OHSU's WLS program is horrible and to give people other options.

As I said, I didn't have mine at OHSU but they were wonderful, the best during my high-risk pregnancy, birth of my son and his cancer treatment. I felt blessed to have such excellent care but understand that what is happening with you is unfair and undeserved.

Let us know how we can help you and your progress.

Karene   
Open RNY ~ May 20, 2003 ~ 334/99/115/150 (PreOp/Lowest/Current/Goal) 
Bran54
on 12/30/08 7:17 am - OR
Topic: RE: Frustrated!
Gosh, don't be so discouraged.  It took you a long, long time to put on your weight.  It will come off in time.  I know we all want it off like yesterday, but it "ain't gonna happen"  Just be patient. 
And yes, I understand being discouraged after hearing in your support group how much others have lost, but don't compare yourself to them. This is your journey.  It will be yours and yours alone.  Just take the time and enjoy the ride......and relish in the changes that are going to happen. 

Bandster hell.........not having enough restriction yet....and being hungry, like you could eat a MAC truck..just give it time........you will be fine.  And definitely don't be afraid of the fill......I had an unfill today......and it was relatively painless...like a huge pin *****  Not bad at all.......and so the journey continues.

Keep in touch!

Happiness is an attitude.  We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong.  The amount of work is the same.  ~Francesca Reigler

 
 








 
Bran54
on 12/30/08 7:12 am - OR
Topic: RE: Frustrated!
Thanks for noticing Julia...I am now only 15 pounds from my goal.  I have come so far...it has been an incredilbe journey. 

Did have an episode with my band the last two weeks, and had to get a slight unfill today.  Liked the rapid escalation of weight, but just couldn't eat, which I know isn't good for me.  Now back to "normal" and hope the weight loss continues. 

I have not given myself a timeline for the loss, just know that I will get there eventually. And that is fine by me.  I love going shopping for clothes now....seeing the reflection in the mirror is so strange.  But finally, I am beginning to see myself for what I am, not the fat person that was there.  You understand?

Happiness is an attitude.  We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong.  The amount of work is the same.  ~Francesca Reigler

 
 








 
skoot
on 12/30/08 5:04 am
Topic: RE: Frustrated!
 Thanks for the great advice and making me realize that your right all my reasons are still there.  What is banster hell?  Just feel like I am the only one having problems or that is frustrated all the time with the slow weight loss.  I hear in support group all these people that have lost so much and here I am on the low end.  I won't even look at the scale just I know I would be disappointed.  I have a fill on the 22nd and hate shots and that is why I am scared of the fill.  I know it has to be done.
Thanks again.
skoot
on 12/30/08 4:47 am
Topic: RE: Frustrated!
 Thanks,
I am worried that things will get stuck.  The shot will hurt.  That it just won't work all together.  I have failed so many times trying to lose weight that I wonder if this is just another one of those things.  I want the weight gone now which I know is impossible but still the frustration is still there.  I don't know how much I have lost since surgery cuz I refuse to look at the scale, I don't want to be disappointed.  I know I have lost some because my clothes fit different now then before surgery.  Just an over all frustration of not knowing if this is working, am I doing things right, or am I going to fail at this too.
skoot
on 12/30/08 4:33 am
Topic: RE: Frustrated!
 Thanks for all the good thoughts and responses.  I made an appointment for my fill, but can't get in until the 22nd.  Still scared but know it has to be done.  Walked 2 miles yesterday in 40 minutes and felt a little tired but good tired.
Thanks again....
nolakm
on 12/30/08 4:06 am - Vancouver, WA
Topic: RE: Is anyone as lost as I am?
Hi Julia!  I'm doing great!  What about you?  You look awesone, and that's a beautiful baby you're holding.  I don't check in here at OH as often as I should anymore.  My bad, lol.  I'll plan to get better about that....the support does a world of good.

Take care,
Nola

bjbear
on 12/29/08 5:18 pm - OR
Topic: RE: Pre-op Liquid Diet ideas?
Nice to hear ~ I'm making an effort  to get all liquid in that the Nutritionist is requiring~ I am really looking forward to my surgery ~ Thanks for your help!
 
bjbear
on 12/29/08 5:15 pm - OR
Topic: RE: Pre-op Liquid Diet ideas?
Thanks ! My Dr. started me on the pre-op diet on 12/23/08 ~ they allowed me to have a normal Christmas Eve dinner with my family though - I'm glad to hear that it's normal for my issues. I'm not too nervous about the surgery yet ~ more excited than anything else! It's harder than I thought it would be ~ not being able to actually chew anything ~ but I'm getting used to it.
 
jtonkin6
on 12/29/08 2:19 pm
Topic: RE: Pre-op Liquid Diet ideas?
You are normal.  Liquid in, liquid out.  No way to make it better.  Good luck on your surgery.

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