What has happened to this group?

What is with all the banter gals???? I realize I am new and sort of out of the loop and buisy, but I do check in here daily and read how everybody is doing, I care, I really do. Over at Monica's house last month, I thought we had a great group of people, and still do, but things aren't looking so good now and I want to know why? Have I done something to offend anybody??? I don't think so, so I believe this banter isn't directed at me, but I take it personal as I consider myself a part of the gang here at Obesity Help. Monica, Keep in touch girly and I hope you aren't going to leave the board because of whatever it is that happened. You have been soo sweet and it would be nice to have a chance to see you more. Brandi

The really funny thing is we are all really new here--only a few of us had ever met the other members before the get together at Monica's. These things happen every where I guess--I hope we can all just get passed it. We all need all the support we can get--this surgery is so life altering it is nice to have a common bond with other people. It really helps me to know that I have people I can call and say--is this normal.

Look girls everything is fine, I just posted something I felt needed to be posted as a support group member, ( that everyone no matter what the differences should be included even if it is impromptu,) If it's the same group of people getting together for the same reason then everyone should be included. That is what a support group is for. Do you not agree? That is all I am saying, because it is over with. I am not leaving the group just because of one little incident, I am sorry that I have not keep in that close contact with some of you, please forgive me. I am doing great, down 51 lbs since surgery as of yesterday. Feel great. Yes I am getting my water down and my husband and I started walking everyday after he gets home from work. My spinal stenois doesn't allow me to walk far yet, but each day is alittle farther, so that is good news to me and it feels great. I go back to the doctors on Friday, see if he will release me to work for full time. Incision healing very nicely. So you have my phone number , Call me ladys. Take care of you. LOL Monica