Some kind of friends !!!!

Why? Is the big question. just because I had a bout with alittle depression after surgery, Like you don't struggle everyday with it yourself. Is that why I wasn't invited to the PARTY. I had everyone of you at my house with open arms and lots of love of friendship to share, NO I am not fighting depression right now, I am just plan hurt !! Apparently , I am ok to take from , but not good enough to be with. I went out of my way to make you little gifts to make you feel comfortable and wanted. Just wait until you go through the surgery yourself. It's not easy, everyday is a struggle. I personally invited everyone of you to our house, and did I get the same treatment ---NO. I did not. So much for the best thing that has happened to me since marrying my husband. Friends who needs them. I guess you only look out for yourself in this world. Watch out for The knife to be in your backs too. It will eventually happen. Don't say the wrong thing. I am only human and yes I have feelings. Your on your own , If I won the lottery tonight I would not help you at all anymore,, I am tired of being used and hurt by so called friends. Have a nice life, and good luck with your surgerys. I will not be played for a fool.

Monica. You should look at the board closely...follow the emails...you'll see CJ, who had surgery in Mexico with the same surgeon that I am going to, was going to be in Portland bringing puppies up for some buyers. I asked her to come by my house. I did it openly, online, on the board. Shelley then jumped in, inviting herself. So I wrote, again publicly, "okay ladies, let's do this." "Ladies" referred to our group, and anyone else reading the board who wanted to come over. I posted my address, my cell phone number, and directions to my home. Publicly. Then asked for RSVPs. Denise jumped in, Sheri jumped in. I assumed you were either unavailable or didn't care to come. Frankly, I didn't care if anyone but CJ was here, because I wanted to hear her experience in Mexico. For a woman who was upset that we mentioned on the board that you had a rash on your face, you certainly have no trouble now taking a dump on the rest of us publicly. No one was individually invited except CJ. However, everyone was welcome. You missed a nice couple of hours, all because you were waiting for an invitiation to the prom. This is just a set up by you to not have friends around you by pushing them away. It is not my intent to "take care" of anyone. You are an adult woman, fully capable of caring for your emotional needs. I am happy to share my time with others in similar situations (WLS), but I'm not a babysitter. You are responsible for how you're feeling right now. I only wish you well, and I feel content with myself and with the other women that no one left you out, but you. Hope you had a good day. I hope you're walking more and drinking more water and taking full advantage of the surgery you just had. Sitting home at your own pity party can do more damage than you might realize. And I wouldn't wish that on anyone. -Lesa

Dear Old Lesa, Thanks I am doing Great!!!!!. I have a life.

You win, Monica. I graduated high school in 1976. Not going back there. Ladies, if any of you want to talk to me, you know my email address. I'm done. I need support, not juvenile antics. Signing off. -Lesa

Look I said what I felt needed to be said, as a support group member only. It's over with let it go. I certainly have.