Has anyone here managed to get Regence BC of OR to pay?
They are paying for mine. I ahven't got the final approval, but they did give a preliminary approval and the doctor said he doesn't anticipate any problems getting approved. Also the recptionist at the dr's office has blue cross and they paid for hers. Have you called your insurance company? I think blue Cross is actually one of the easier ones to get approved.
It sounds like your husband's specific plan has an exclusion for weight loss surgery. The company I work for does also. My understanding is that you will never be successful at getting the insurance to pay when there is an exclusion. Some people have been able to get the employer to make changes to their policy. I tried that and my company would not even consider it. Don't give up hope. Good luck!