Question about friends

I know I have not posted on here in a long time but I have a question that I was wondering if anyone else has experienced. I have a friend and we have liked to go out to the bar locally to hang out but lately she is has not been as interested in going. This last weekend I was the one that got the attention from the opposite sex which she did not like. She has always gotten the attention and I will admit it bothered me some but I still went out. Now she does not want to go out with me and is saying that it is because she does not want to get into a "bad habit" again. We have been going out one night on the weekend for the last couple of months. It is a stress reliever from our children since we are both single parents. I now feel guilty but think it is not my fault and should not be feeling guilty. What should I do? Thanks for any assistance/suggestions.

I'd either find something else to do or find someone else to go with! Linda

Bekka, I lost one friend because of this surgery and gained a whole new perspective.... That person was never really a friend to begin with if they let the fact that I am smaller than her become an issue. It is the same for you I'm afraid. In time you will find a big world of things to do and new people to do them with. Take those opportunities to search for your own truth and let the "friend" go. Trisha