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on 10/4/19 12:34 pm
VSG on 03/21/19
Topic: RE: Hurry up and wait!

The waiting is definitely the hardest part but the prize (surgery) is so worth it!

I was told from referral to surgery it would be approximately 12-18 months. That sounded like a very long time to me but the time flew by and within 16 months I was on my pre-op liquid diet!

selkiem
on 10/4/19 8:00 am
Topic: RE: Prenatal multivitamin

My GP monitors things like iron regularly - at the moment I don't need it as diet/vitamins seem to be doing the trick. But around every four months he sends me for blood tests. I am almost 4 months post-op.

Lucile777
on 10/1/19 7:18 pm
Topic: RE: HR / Federal Government Health Care Pre-Surgery

Agreed. Do not tell them anything. You don't have to. Your surgeon will fill out a very generalized form that states you are getting surgery and what your estimated return to work date is. Submit this to your HR. You do not have to tell the specifics of any surgery.

RNY Oct. 27/17. HW 289; SW 285; GW 144; LW: 161 CW: 196 FML: Fighting regain :(

Mallory
on 10/1/19 3:48 pm - Toronto, Canada
Topic: RE: CHANGE OF VENUE!!! EDIT! 29 St. Dennis Dr., not 25!!! Fall 2019 Clothing Exchange

Clothing/Book Exchange Event Synopsis


The clothing exchange is a bi-annual event held in May and November for women of all ages and sizes. Comprised mainly out of the plus-sized and weight loss surgery (WLS) communities, the clothing exchange enables larger women to meet and trade/donate items, thereby helping to offset the need to purchase new clothing, especially for those whom have had WLS and are losing weight rapidly.


As plus-size clothing tends to be more expensive, this twice yearly event gives larger women the opportunity to:


a) Recycle clothing that is no longer required or desired,
b) Obtain newer items to update current wardrobe, without the pressure of salespeople,
c) Provide a charitable service to the community by donating unclaimed items at the end of the event,
d) Meet like-minded women and engage in companionship without distractions from regular day to day life.


The Fall 2011 event was the first to incorporate book exchanging as well. Previously a separate event, it was determined that the same communities could meet to exchange books and literature at the same time.
While the event is listed as an "exchange", in actually, there is no onus on anyone to bring clothing or books to "trade". Unlike a true exchange where an item is swapped for another like item, this event focuses more on the 3 R's of a green planet philosophy.


This event has always been free to participants. Water and coffee, if available, is provided and sometimes light refreshments. Participants are welcome to bring healthy snacks to share if they wish, but again, there is no onus on anyone.


This event is alcohol and drug-free. Women are asked to leave children, pets and husbands at home (with the exception of helping drop off or pick up bags) to enable privacy for the women who wish to try on clothing. Women are also asked to only bring CLEAN ITEMS IN GOOD REPAIR.


Past events have proven to be well attended with the average number being around 20 women. This event was held annually but has since grown to bi-annually due to demand. Past donations have ranged from 3 to 32 large bags of clothing at the completion of event.

~ Harshing On Grooves Since 1967

~ Acting My Shoe Size Since 1984

Mallory
on 10/1/19 3:47 pm, edited 11/15/19 4:43 am - Toronto, Canada
Topic: CHANGE OF VENUE!!! EDIT! 29 St. Dennis Dr., not 25!!! Fall 2019 Clothing Exchange

It's that time again ladies!!!

November 17, 2019. 1:30 pm to 5 pm.

Dennis R. Timbrell Resource Centre, 29 St. Dennis Drive. Near Eglinton and Don Mills Rd.

Room 2 on second floor, elevator accessible.

Anything not claimed will be donated to a local charity. Open to all ladies wishing to exchange clothing, accessories, shoes, handbags, books, etc...

Water will be provided. Feel free to bring healthy snacks to share, if you wish.

Please remember that this is an adult event where ladies will be trying on clothes. As such, I must insist that children, pets and husbands be left at home.

We have had great turnouts at previous exchanges. Nobody goes home empty-handed and we always donate many bags of clothing to a local charity!

Hope to see you all there!

Anyone needing my cellular number, PM me.

~ Harshing On Grooves Since 1967

~ Acting My Shoe Size Since 1984

Tuktu
on 10/1/19 12:40 pm
RNY on 03/07/17
Topic: RE: Hurry up and wait!

Waiting can be torture - but you have had the patience for all the other parts of the process so you got this. It is nice once you get a date and you can do more planning, but until then there's nothing you can do about it. When you get a date, it goes really fast! So there's that to look forward to.

BB78
on 10/1/19 11:51 am
Topic: RE: HR / Federal Government Health Care Pre-Surgery

Hi,

I just told my supervisor and gave her a note from my doctor that said I would be off of work for up to six weeks as Certified sick leave, which I had, if you have no sick leave you can request sick leave to been advanced to you.

I told my supervisor nothing about why I was off just that I would be off for that time as they are not required to know or ask.

I am out on the road and do have to lift up to 40 lbs so I took the full six weeks, but if I was at a desk I would have been fine in 2 weeks but I would have probably not been able to do full days as I slept a lot the first month after surgery.

I never notified HR or Sun Life.

ll27515
on 10/1/19 9:35 am
Topic: HR / Federal Government Health Care Pre-Surgery

Hi Everyone,

I'm at the point where I'm waiting for the call for a surgery date. I've met with the surgeon already and am good to go...almost.

My question is for anyone working in the federal government, what do you have to do prior to your surgery? I'm assuming I'll be off for 2 to 3 weeks (hopefully not longer as it's only a desk job), but do I need to notify HR, contact Sun Life, what is the process on that regard before surgery?

Obviously I'll let my director know I will be having surgery on XX date and will likely be off for 3 weeks, but what else might I have to do?

Thanks everyone, and I'm very much looking forward to this and will probably be much more active on this in the coming weeks.

Waxwing
on 9/30/19 3:01 pm
Topic: Hurry up and wait!

I'm so ready to finish this part of the process!

My file was sent to the coordinator to schedule my consent appointment about a month ago and I'm still waiting to hear when I'll see the surgeon.

It's so frustrating sometimes feeling like your life is just in limbo waiting to plan things around surgery. I know it'll be sometime in the next few months but I can't even let my work know roughly when I'm going to need to book time off until I have a surgery date.

Its still way faster than in other areas of the country, I know (I was referred last Nov) but I really just want to get done with this part of the process!

OnlineAnnie
on 9/29/19 10:33 pm
Topic: RE: Prenatal multivitamin

Do you get to skip having to take iron if you take prenatal vitamins? My nutritionist suggests centrum select 50+ for me but I'm interested in hearing about what others are taking.

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