completely petty, I know, BUT...

Wayne H.
on 6/23/17 11:45 am
RNY on 02/08/17

I went through this as well. Where I had hoped folks would have noticed I was shrinking, many did not except for recently. All I hear now is

"WOW"

"Hey Skinny"

"I hardly recognized you"

My close friends that did not notice in most cases are now seeing it and commenting.


Don't worry, They all notice it when the clothes fit better, hang less and show off the new Body!!

fromfattohealthy
on 6/23/17 12:35 pm - Canada

OMG, this!!! I laughed out loud!

I am ONLY 5'0 and I have lost a total of 28lbs....my friend who literally notices NOTHING, was the only person to notice.

However, I do think my other "friends" notice but won't say a word...thats another topic though! LOL

5'0 - SW - 240LBS | Lap Band - August 2015| Revision Band to RNY Surgery - May 16, 2017| Opti-fast - 9lbs | G.W - 150LBS | CW - 165LBS |

TheRealMeWithin
on 6/23/17 12:42 pm - Canada
RNY on 06/02/17

I'm only 4'10.5" so we're almost the same.

i know what you mean about certain 'friends ' but luckily I haven't run into those people yet.

Surgery Jun.2/17 at TWH ----- HW 215 - SW 197.2 - GW 125 CW 124.6

Pre-Op=8.8lbs --- Optifast= 8.4 (was on it for 9 days due to cancellation)

M1 - 20.6... M2 -10.2... M3 -8.0... M4 -5.8... M5 -9.0... M6 -5.2... M7 -7.0... M8 -2.2... M9 -0.9... M10 -2.6... M11-0.6... M12-2.0

https://trendweight.com/u/6ffd55753da24d/

GeorgianBay_Girl
on 6/23/17 12:43 pm

I'm 5'2'' and it wasn't until I last over 60lbs that people started to notice..hang in there :)

Referral date: May 19, 2016 | Info session: July 12, 2016 | Surgeon Approval: December 2, 2016 | Pre Op: January 24, 2017 | Trio: February 9, 2017 | Surgery Date: March 3, 2017, Humber River Regional Hospital

Starting Weight: 253 | Post-Optifast Weight/day of surgery: 237 | Current Weight: 123.2

(deactivated member)
on 6/23/17 2:54 pm, edited 6/23/17 7:54 am

I feel all your pain... I guess with me I have lost and regained the same 30 lbs over and over .., and no one ever notices... Good or bad.. but soon they will for US all

H.A.L.A B.
on 6/23/17 4:53 pm

Be happy about that. I hated people asking me how much I lost. Commenting that I looked good since i lost weight.

I had a friend who honestly never paid attention to my size. He was a gentlemen who would never comment on lady losing or gaining. He was from an old school- don't talk about age or weight. Never.

Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG

"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"

"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

LettingLayneyLoose
on 6/23/17 5:40 pm

I bet people will start commenting on your loss soon. 25 lbs in a month is amazing! Nobody seemed to notice that I was losing weight until I'd lost 50lbs. I felt bad at the time that no one said anything, but now, I wish people would stop talking about it.

HW: 299 CW: 165 GW: 150

Started Optifast on April 21, 2017 at 248lbs through the Ontario Bariatric Network medical program.

H.A.L.A B.
on 6/23/17 6:22 pm

but now, I wish people would stop talking about it.

yeap... that...

Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG

"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"

"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

smash150
on 6/23/17 9:35 pm

I had this happen too. Leading up to surgery I lost 50lbs by eating better and exercising. I put in so much hard work and it was only my family that noticed. Then I go off for surgery and lose another 25lbs. Now everyone notices and thinks I lost it all overnight. It was frustrating for awhile.

Referral Nov 29, 2016: Orientation Jan 12, 2017: Nurse Feb 6, 2017: Dietitian and SW March 3, 2017: Trio April 5, 2017-cleared for surgery: Meet the Surgeon April 12, 2017: Post op Nutrition class May 8, 2017: RNY Surgery May 9, 2017

HW: 306(day of referral) CW: 172 Height: 5'6

Travelher
on 6/24/17 4:05 am
Revision on 10/04/16

It took about 60 for people to start noticing. I've gone from a size 20 to a 4/6 and now I'm getting tons of comments, and lots of people still don't. It goes from that to "you can stop now".

Band-RNY revision age 50 5'4" HW 260 SW: 244 (bf healthy range 23-35%) bf 23.7% (at 137lbs) cw range 135-138.lbl with butt lift and mastoplexy March 23, 2018...2.5lbs removed.

Pre-op-16lbs (size 18/20...244) M1-16lbs (size 18...228) M2-15.6lbs (size 16/18...212.4) M3-10lbs (size 16..202.4) M4-11.4lbs (size 14...191) M5-10.8lbs (size 12...180.2) M6-8.4 (size 8/10...171.8) M7-6.4 (size 8...165.4 lbs) M8-11.6 (size 6...153.8) M9-5.6 (size 4/6...148.2) M10-5.8 (size 4....142.4) M11-4 (size 2/4...138.4) Surgiversary -1 (size 2/4...137.4) M13-2.6 (size 2/4...134.8) M14 (size 2/4...134.8) M15 (size 2...135) M16 (size 2...131.4) M17 (size 2...135) M18 (size 2...135) M19 (size 2...138) M20 (size 2...135) M21 (size 2...138)

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