So hard to be patient

Teena D.
on 12/6/16 6:55 am - Oshawa, Canada
RNY on 01/12/17

I finished all my appointments and was cleared to see the surgeon at TWH in September.  My appointment was November 25th and along with everyone else, all surgeon appointments at TWH were reschedued to the new year. So I'm waiting and won't see the surgeon until Jan 6.  

I know the time will pass, and it won't seem so bad looking back... And I know too that now is the time to work on getting good habits in place- believe me I'm trying.

Just venting. The process is so long!

RNY Jan 12, 2017 Lost 137 lbs but regained 60.

77 lbs lost and counting!

Losing the regain! I got this!

Ginnny
on 12/6/16 7:07 am - Ontario, Canada
RNY on 04/11/16

Quick get on the phone and see if the December 20th date is still open!!

Teena D.
on 12/6/16 8:44 am - Oshawa, Canada
RNY on 01/12/17

They won't give me a date until I see the surgeon and the very first date to see a surgeon is Jan 6. :(

RNY Jan 12, 2017 Lost 137 lbs but regained 60.

77 lbs lost and counting!

Losing the regain! I got this!

crqvingchange
on 12/6/16 9:23 am

Yes it is a long wait (mine was 18 months from referral) but you have been doing so well with getting your head in the game and I know you will do well post op.  Look at how far you've come since referral.  2017 will be your year to shine.

Try to get in as much activity as you are able to now because you will have to wait usually 6 weeks after surgery before you are approved for exercise.  Start organizing your closet into sizes.  That way as you start shrinking you can get rid of the bigger sizes.  

Enjoy the holidays with your family and try to figure out healthier ways to prepare your favourite dishes such as mashed potatoes made with 3/4 cauliflower and 1/4 potatoes, Splenda cranberry sauce, green beans with almonds, and low carb pumpkin mousse instead of pumpkin pie.   

CENTURY CLUB MEMBER at 6 months post-op.

Referral to Guelph Feb/13, Sleep study and all bloodwork and ultrasound May/13, orientation July/13. Nurse, NUT,SW Sept/13, 2nd NUT, nurse and SW, 3rd round and cleared for surgery Dec/13. Pre-op Apr 7/14, Surgeon May 2/14, Opti Jul 3/14, surgery Jul 17/14.

leeann73
on 12/6/16 2:25 pm

those are all really great suggestions for the holiday.  I am going to try the low carb pumpkin mousse.

TDotDana
on 12/7/16 9:54 am - Toronto, Canada
RNY on 01/23/17

Did you cancel your Dec 20th surgery?

 

I passed on that date - only because my colleague is away over Christmas - and didn't want to leave my employer with nobody

 

I'm Jan 23rd now - which is just as good :)

HW - 283lbs (1991)** LW - 206lbs (2014)**CW 265lbs **Slimband - March 8, 2013 ** 275lbs @ Preop Diet**  261lbs on surgery day**Referral TWH - Feb'16**Orientation TWH - May 11/16**Psychologist TWH (Dr Wnuk) - June 24/16 ** Social Work (Anna Wallwork) - July 20/16 **Nurse (Wei Wang) - July 25/16 ** Nutrition Class (Lorraine Gougeon) - Aug 15/16    Endoscopy TWH - Aug 18/16  Dietician (Laura Scott) - Sept 15/16 Surgeon Dr Okrainek Nov 18/16 ** PreOP @ TWN Jan 9/17 *** RNY & Lap Band Removal Surgery @ TWH Jan 23/17 w/ Dr Urbach

Ginnny
on 12/8/16 5:57 am - Ontario, Canada
RNY on 04/11/16

No No, I'm 8 months out!

sweetart
on 12/6/16 11:01 am - Windsor, ON
RNY on 12/20/16

For me it wasn't so much the waiting as it was the not knowing. If I started this 2 years ago and they told me that I'd be having surgery in December 2016 I'd have been happy with that. But not knowing makes it impossible to plan your life around, adds anxiety, stress etc. 

 

Melissa in Windsor, Ontario

Referral 1/15/2016 - Surgery TEGH (Michael Garron) December 20, 2016 w/ Dr. Aarts

5'2" - - - > HW 282, Optifast 220, SW 213, CW 156 (but I'm on it!)

Teena D.
on 12/6/16 11:34 am - Oshawa, Canada
RNY on 01/12/17

YES! That's exactly right! And I know they tell you it will take up to a certain amount of time. I just need to know a date... although at this point I'd definitely like the date to be sooner than later.

RNY Jan 12, 2017 Lost 137 lbs but regained 60.

77 lbs lost and counting!

Losing the regain! I got this!

leeann73
on 12/6/16 2:27 pm

It is hard to wait and to be patient.  I know that it is a good time to get the good habits going but I don't know about anyone else, but if I only follow the nutrition plan I am hungry ... will be so happy to have a small pouch to help with the full feeling ... January 6th is exactly one month away - the count down is on ... you will do GREAT!

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