Feeling down......
on 7/4/14 11:44 pm, edited 7/5/14 12:09 am
Hormones can make your life miserable sometimes.I think the surgery has us on a roller coaster ride some days. I know when the sun is not shining I have a hard time and I feel blue.I try to get out in the sun to make me feel better to.
Retail therapy does help.I think just getting out with people makes us feel better to.Call a friend one that is not a Debbie Downer and go out.I hope you feel better.
Hi there,
I am pre surgery , waiting is hard and I get in funky moods. However I was wondering when I read your post if those of you who have lost such huge amounts of weight ever feel like you are grieving the loss of the "old you". I know in the past when I have tried to lose weight using WW and such I will get about 80 pounds off and then I get "scared" of the new me...and don't always recognize myself...so I am wondering if part of your funk is just you trying to come to terms with the "new you"? Also for many of us we overeat or over ate....to deal with emotions, to celebrate, to reward, to fit in...when we can no longer do that...we are then almost forced to deal with things upfront...can that cause some yucky feelings as we adjust to the new person we are becoming?
I wonder what others think of this...and for those of you who are post surgery can you speak a little about your experiences about becoming the " new you" while at the same time letting go of the "old you"?
I hope the retail therapy helped :)
Referral to Guelph: January 2014 ~ Orientation Guelph: April 24.14~ Meet Nurse: June 03.14, August 28.14 ~ Meet SW: June 16.14 & Aug.28.14 & Feb.09.15 ~ Meet Dietician: June 16.14, August 28.14 & Nov.19.14~ Dec.31.14 & Feb.05.15 Meet Internist Dr Agarwal: Sept.28.14 ~ Post Op Nutrition class: March 16.2015 Meet Surgeon: April 16.15 ~ Approved for surgery: April 16.15 ~ Surgery Date: July 14.15 ~ Started Opti: July 07.14~ Opti Starting weight: TBD~ Surgery weight: TBD ~ Goal weight: 150