Posting a Pic
You're not a moron. It just takes adjusting and reducing your picture until it is less than 20kb. When you're reducing and cropping your picture, save it and then look at the properties for the size of the file. Once it is under 20 kb then you can upload it. I just redid mine and it took about 5 tries to get it smaller. Holler if you need help and I'll be glad to help further. I'm an IT geek!