Found an OH.commer IRL
A few weeks ago I was parousing the before/after's and I saw somebody that looked REALLY familiar. I read her story and more & more I was pretty sure it was who I thought it was. Her son is on my DD's soccer team, so I sent the lady a message and asked her if she has a son that plays in our league. LOL Never got a message back, haven't seen her at practices lately.
So she was at the game today, and I figured I'd just ask. So I asked her if she used to live in a particular town that the OH'er had mentioned in her story...she did. Then I asked her if she used to post here...she did. LOL It IS her. I had been a little nervous about asking because some people are really private about it IRL, but I figured she could always lie and say no. LOL
So glad I asked her! We had a really good chat about it, I invited her to my support group since she hasn't been going to group, and we traded phone numbers. She had surgery in 2003, so she's a pro. ;)
So she was at the game today, and I figured I'd just ask. So I asked her if she used to live in a particular town that the OH'er had mentioned in her story...she did. Then I asked her if she used to post here...she did. LOL It IS her. I had been a little nervous about asking because some people are really private about it IRL, but I figured she could always lie and say no. LOL
So glad I asked her! We had a really good chat about it, I invited her to my support group since she hasn't been going to group, and we traded phone numbers. She had surgery in 2003, so she's a pro. ;)