Way off topic deux
I don't know if I read it on here, on facebook or saw it somewhere else but it was a wise statement so excuse me if I steal it from someone...it is worth repeating if only I knew how to exactly repeat it...oh well this is what was kinda said..... You are who you are and he is who he is...and neither should change for the other. He is who he is and always will be the thing. He is right for someone, just as you are for someone. You just aren't right for each other and that is it.
That doesn't make either of you wrong for being who you are....But it wouild be wrong to try to make it right.....Does that make sense?
Sherry
That doesn't make either of you wrong for being who you are....But it wouild be wrong to try to make it right.....Does that make sense?
Sherry
Sherry, It makes alot of sense ....
Only thng is the heart and head sometimes dont work together.
Kinda strange how fate works. Saturday nite "he" posts that his vagus nerve stimulator battery went dead. Which stops him from having seizures. He sent me notes saying how much he loved me and if he didnt make it he would always be with me.
I called and he was crying.saying that he was scared that he wouldnt survive this.
We talked for a few minutes and then his childhood friend called and she and I discussed him...he is the type that never asks for help nor does he cry easily so we know that this is very serious.
Ive talked to him 5 times since then and he is very quite keeps telling me he loves me and said he was going to call his Dad.For Scott to do that I know he is scared.
This morning he called the nerosurgeon who put the implant in and he was told Sept. before he could be seen...I called and she said that she had given the doctor the note..I told her in my most aggrivated holy then thou attitude that if he died while waiting for an appointment that I would make sure the practise was sued. that his implant kept him alive and it wasnt like he just needed a prescription filled. He got a call back and the appt was moved to aug 27..im calling again in an hour raising hell.
Only thng is the heart and head sometimes dont work together.
Kinda strange how fate works. Saturday nite "he" posts that his vagus nerve stimulator battery went dead. Which stops him from having seizures. He sent me notes saying how much he loved me and if he didnt make it he would always be with me.
I called and he was crying.saying that he was scared that he wouldnt survive this.
We talked for a few minutes and then his childhood friend called and she and I discussed him...he is the type that never asks for help nor does he cry easily so we know that this is very serious.
Ive talked to him 5 times since then and he is very quite keeps telling me he loves me and said he was going to call his Dad.For Scott to do that I know he is scared.
This morning he called the nerosurgeon who put the implant in and he was told Sept. before he could be seen...I called and she said that she had given the doctor the note..I told her in my most aggrivated holy then thou attitude that if he died while waiting for an appointment that I would make sure the practise was sued. that his implant kept him alive and it wasnt like he just needed a prescription filled. He got a call back and the appt was moved to aug 27..im calling again in an hour raising hell.
being healthy has its rewards....take the challenge and just do it
I hate to tell you this and I have no idea what his issues are, but my mom is 80 and for the past 35 years her Vagus nerve has been cut right in to. Basically she doesn't have one. They cut it during a surgery for a hernia in her esophagus.....Soooooooooooooooooooo I'm not saying it's not important, but they wouldn't put an appointment for over 2 months away if it was an emergency....Mom has stomach problems that were affected by it but still.....I'm missing something here I guess........ Annnnnnnddddd Pattye...let me be as honest as you would be here....How old is this guy? Didn't you just say, you weren't being anyone's mother again???? Might just start right now. You know I love you to pieces....but you are here...he is there and it's his body.....Let him deal with it. If he is that freakin scared then he'd have called or went to the hospital....Pattye, I am pretty quick on some things and that sounds like my grandson when he wants attention! Sorry....but true.
I love ya girl and don't be mad, I am just speakin what I'm seein here
Sher
I love ya girl and don't be mad, I am just speakin what I'm seein here
Sher
he suffers from seizures that constantly happen. I did call and the surgeon said that if he went to the er he would be given meds. So I thanked him and said I was sorry for being a bitoch...he acepted and said that I was a good friend.
The damn thing goes off alot..his voices changes and he acts werid..for a few minutes. But like a lawyer once said to me...HE IS A GROWN MAN ITS NOT YOUR PLACE TO DO FOR HIM ITS HIS PLACE TO do for himself...
I remembered that after I made the call. and its true. I cant be the one to do and do....When it comes to my health I am the one that does for me..if it was me My arse would have been in the er as soon as I realized the battery was dead...
Sher I called him and said I would drive there to help him..he said nope nope nope so I wont.
I am planning on going to NC next month and staying for awhile...gonna spend time with family and friends..one who I have reconnected with on Facebook....
HUGS BABY>>>>muah
The damn thing goes off alot..his voices changes and he acts werid..for a few minutes. But like a lawyer once said to me...HE IS A GROWN MAN ITS NOT YOUR PLACE TO DO FOR HIM ITS HIS PLACE TO do for himself...
I remembered that after I made the call. and its true. I cant be the one to do and do....When it comes to my health I am the one that does for me..if it was me My arse would have been in the er as soon as I realized the battery was dead...
Sher I called him and said I would drive there to help him..he said nope nope nope so I wont.
I am planning on going to NC next month and staying for awhile...gonna spend time with family and friends..one who I have reconnected with on Facebook....
HUGS BABY>>>>muah
being healthy has its rewards....take the challenge and just do it
That sounds like the kind of advice you would give me if I posted the same thing you posted! You go girl! With that attitude you will be just fine!
You are back up and ready to roll!
Happy Monday!!!
Hugs
Kim J!.
You are back up and ready to roll!
Happy Monday!!!
Hugs
Kim J!.
When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, "I used everything you gave me." Erma Bombeck
19 lbs lost before surgery
9/3/09 Full TT, MR, BL, BA, Arm Reduction and Lipo 10-12 lbs skin/fat removed
Mine too! Just ask my daughter! LOL!
When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, "I used everything you gave me." Erma Bombeck
19 lbs lost before surgery
9/3/09 Full TT, MR, BL, BA, Arm Reduction and Lipo 10-12 lbs skin/fat removed
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