my vent
I have been under so much stress for the last eight weeks that i did something I normally wouldn't have ever done.
A older woman called me today asking me to come and some work for her this week. I tried to be nice and explained to her that i was already scheduled full. She then ripped into me saying since I had lost weight I have become a bitoch. That I should never had wls and that I had changed. The evil came out in and I responded that It was a good thing that I lost the weight cause IF I HAD NT I would come to her house and sit on her till she suffocated. She said a few more ugly things to me and hung up.
Then my brother called wanting me to pay his car insurance..UH WHAT!
I told him he could pay mine and I would pay his..he hung up saying something about me having an attitude since I lost weight..
Then my boyfriend called me complaining that he thought I didn't want to come to SC that maybe I wanted to end the relationship..HUH?
And then finally I got on some new scales and it said I was 15 pounds heavier than my other clients scales..SO I know I should have stayed in bed this morning...with a bag of chips and cookiessss...uh yea right...can you say dumping syndrome
LaDetra
on 6/16/09 10:44 am
I think some mean people are always looking for the ***** in the armor so to speak. If they can't call us fat, then they call us biotches because we lost weight. Mean people don't deserve the time of day.
I'm getting so I don't want any body comments whatsoever-good or bad. Maybe a general "you look nice today"....but I'm tired of being evaluated-too fat, too thin, whatever people. I'm not a show dog-just a garden variety biotch...LOL.
NOW having said that.....We are changing. We don't have to be push overs anymore....I told a friend in CT that he was hereby deleted! I have been his friend for 12 years. The key words are I HAVE BEEN HIS Friend....I called and checked up on him after his WLS and sent him Christmas gifts....he didn't even type TY in a note I have no knowledge that he even got the gifts! I have not heard from him in months! He never checked on me to see how my surgery went.....So I wrote him and told him that I was done.......He tried to say he broke up with his boyfriend and he has been sick over it....I said ohhhh but you have posted recipes and crap on OH but can't type in
Thanks or how are you.....A friend asked me why he had changed....I told them...He didn't, I did!!
I am deleting people in my life that are draining me and are toxic to me.....I don't think it has anything to do with the surgery....just inner strength that may seem *****y....but I see it as strength!
Soooooooooo yes, maybe you needed to make a stand....and you did it.....Ask yourself if you felt you did anything wrong...if you don't, then move on but don't eat chips or cookies! haha.....I am just going to evaluate my attitude lately....I don't want to become a *****I want to be who I have always been....just stronger. That is why I ask my kids for their help, in case I am not seeing things....My kids will tell me too! (the little brats!) I just know I dont want to be 80 years old saying I have a right to be hateful and rude to people if I wan't....thats what my mom says! I am never to old to make good changes, if necessary!