Emily!!!

I think you would look great in shoulder or chin length hair!!!  It's just hair and if you don't like it it will always grow!  You need a new hair do for the new Em!!  You should surprise your husband one day with new hair, make-up, nails and a pedicure!  That would be so awesome and you so deserve it!!! 

thanks Debbie. I am thinking about the hair. I have been thinking about it for a while now. I surprised George with new hair one time and he didn't talk to me for 3 days. He didn't like it. He said it was too short. I uploaded my pic to a website that you can try hairdos on  and so far I've not found one I like. So, we will have to see. I don't want to go really short, but I don't want to have to "fix" it everyday either. I want wash and wear hair. I am not in to primping.
eMily

You're welcome.  I sure wouldn't want to suggest anything to you that your husband would not be happy with.  I've always just done what I want to with my hair and my husband usually doesn't have much to say about it.  He usually compliments me and there has been one time in 37 years that he said "I don't like your hair"!!  LOL  Men...can't live with them and you can't live without them!!! 

Hi, Emily.
I read a post where a gal put up her head shot photo on www.MyHairStyler.com, chose a few hairstyles, and then those styles were put on her head shot, so she could see what she'd look like in each one. She put them on her post and had others choose the one they thought looked best on her. Everyone chose the same one, and it was the one she was favoring, too.
Anyway, it looked like fun. I think it cost her a little under $10. I would like to do that, but I have no clue how to do the camera to computer thing. I'll have to ask one of my kids to help me. Maybe that's something you might consider doing, just for fun. I understand about being afraid of change, but with having WLS, "change" is our middle name. :)
Blessings,
Mary

I have to agree she is looking hot!