Wow Moment for a Friend!!!

fleemore1
on 4/15/09 11:45 pm - Harrah, OK
Last night was our graduate support group meeting at Weight Wise.  Those of you who are regulars to our weekly support group know that we have a lady in our group who had to loose 100 pounds pre-op.  Most people I know including your's truly probably would have left the facility after hearing you have to loose 100 pounds before surgery.  Well, not her, she got all of her pre-op requirements done and even lost 126 pounds (in about 1 year) and had her WLS yesterday.  That's true determination!  She was walking the halls and showing a friend the facility when we ran into her.  I just wanted to cry when I saw her and the smile on her face was priceless.  She is such a success story already and will continue to be.  It will be AWESOME to follow her and her journey.  She isn't a blogger or doesn't enjoy online stuff so we probably won't see her on the forum but just smile when you think about her!!!  She's such an awesome person and I know you all are going to embrace her and support her as well!!!

This is the ride of my life.....what an amazing tool I now have!!!
darbiokc
on 4/16/09 12:17 am - Oklahoma City, OK
What an oustanding accomplishement, please pass on my PRAISES to her.
GlitterGal
on 4/16/09 12:19 am - Edmond, OK
It was a thrill to see her!  Her name is Debra and I think at her initial surgical appointment, they told her she had to lose between 85-125 pounds before they would do surgery on her and SHE DID IT!!!

This woman is truly an inspiration and makes my struggles look ridiculous!  I couldn't be happier for her!

Kim J.
on 4/16/09 12:23 am - Claremore, OK
Thanks for sharing that story!  No one will EVER say she took the easy way out!  She is a true inspiration!

When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, "I used everything you gave me." Erma Bombeck
  
19 lbs lost before surgery
9/3/09  Full TT, MR, BL, BA, Arm Reduction and Lipo 10-12 lbs skin/fat removed

fleemore1
on 4/16/09 12:37 am - Harrah, OK
That is for sure!!!  I've known her from the first time she came to a support meeting and have watched her journey this far.  That's hard work and a lot of determination.

This is the ride of my life.....what an amazing tool I now have!!!
marylaw
on 4/16/09 2:17 am - Winfield, KS
What a precious story of determination and success! I know she will continue to be successful. I know how hard it was to hear Dr. Walton tell me how much I'd have to lose in order to have surgery, and it was nothing like what she had to lose. I hope you'll keep us posted on her progress.
Blessings,
Mary
"Don't tell God how big your storm is; tell your storm how BIG your God is!"

     ObesityHelp Support Group Leader and Support Group Coach
okiechic7
on 4/16/09 3:53 am - Bethany, OK
And I complained about the 20 lbs I had to lose!!! I feel ashamed now...She is an inspiring person for those who are pre-op and have any amount to lose! Thanks Deb for sharing her story.


Sher

 

(deactivated member)
on 4/16/09 5:03 am
Isn't it wonderful how if we just wander around we often find what we need?  I really needed to read this today to get some perspective-and be truly truly grateful for being a post op.
fleemore1
on 4/16/09 5:14 am - Harrah, OK
You and me both Debra.  It couldn't have happened at a better time for me to run into her.  It was right after our graduate group and we had had a heavy discussion about our fears being post op.  I just forget how far I've come and where I was a year ago.  She truly inspired me in a way that no support group meeting could have. 

This is the ride of my life.....what an amazing tool I now have!!!
(deactivated member)
on 4/16/09 5:25 am

Yep, life is full of fear sometimes.  I'd rather fear getting wrinkly skin or sagging boobs as opposed to fearing a heart attack or not being able to make it from the back of the parking lot to the front of the store (let alone make it through the store).

Unfortunately, unless you can afford a lot of cosmetics and counseling, we will always carry some scars and burdens from being over weight, but the burdens are much lighter than they were before.  (pardon the pun) 

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