AAAAARRRRRRGGGGGG....venting

You are right, he can suck it!

I am sorry to hear about your kitty woes too. It is always hard to loose something we love.

Thanks for taking the time to reach out to me, it means a lot!

Jennfier

babe we have a biker gang tee shirt with your name written on it. if you like we go smash the windows with his car with oreo's. that we we buy the comfort food and it just so happens to confront us as we put it on his car. I am so game if you are. I am such an animal lover i seriously love my dogs more than some of my family members so i understand that but that is what the big hug and tee shirt are for. Call me and I will pick up the oreo's..deal?

I can always count on you for a big laugh!! I know how you feel about your dogs I feel the same way about my animals! We need to get together soon and cause some trouble, lol.

Jenn

jennifier
I talked about this in a support group meeting....you are losing weight....some men can nto deal with that...its like when you were heavier he knew you wouldnt wander off now that the weight is coming off he is afraid you will find someone better and apparently you desire someone better....so instead of reaching for the oreos reach for better dreams....take a walk listen to a great cd...as for the kitty..My heart goes out to ya...the pain will ease with time and when you are ready for another one then adopt one...
just stay away from the oreos they are mena little demons with no respect...

I have kept the oreos at bay, and will continue to do so even if it is a struggle. Thanks for the encouragement. This board is the best!!

jenn

I SAY GOOD RIDDANCE TO THE BUM BOYFRIEND!! HE WON'T KNOW WHAT TO THINK WHEN YOU LOSE ALL YOUR WEIGHT AND THE MEN ARE FALLING ALL OVER YOU!! AS FOR THE CAT I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS!! I,TOO MISS MY OLD FRIEND FOOD BUT YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO COPE WITHOUT IT!! YOU CAN DO THIS!

Thank you for your thoughts. I am learning new ways to cope but it is so scary when you just want to slide back into old ways. This is a battle I will fight forever.

Jenn

Awww, Jennifer, I'm SO sorry.

Men can be such PITA's at times....and yeah, so can we. I have found it's helpful to make a list of pros and cons about your relationship and see if was really a blessing or a sadness--men don't communicate very well as we know. There could be any number of reasons he left you, but you may never find out. And with that said, we all know we dwell on US, what did WE do wrong? Blah Blah Blah. Whatever. It could be you, it could be him. I would just see if it's worth anguishing about, you know? It's always a nice attitude adjuster when we have love and support from a man in our lives, but hey, we're strong women, right? someone said in the replies that he might not be able to deal with your drastic changes to your outside, and better to know it now, right?

And as for poor kitty, you were able to love him for a longggg time and it's always incredibly hard to let one go but it's the kindest thing. I'm glad you have a wild child to get some kitty-love from!

It's ALWAYS good to vent. I always try to dissuade people from 'vengeance' whether it's verbal or physical, just take the higher road! It will be better for you. And forgive him (ex) for not knowing how to be good enough for you.

 

Lisa J

Good advice! Thank you for that!

jenn