Thank You

Thank you for all the hugs, and well wishes tonight. You all are the best adoptive family a girl could ever ask for!

I talked to the "good" sister today and the other one has already changed the dress we had picked out indicating to me that there is no intent to even try to work things out between us.

Things will be hard for a while, but at least I know where I can turn for support!

Then it is her loss!  I'm sorry you're going through this but you can count on all of us!

I am glad that you had a good time tonight. We are here for you always.

Nancy,

The only opinions that should matter to you are the ones from the people who truly love you.  I don't understand it when selfish people have to act so foolish and say such hurtful things to the ones they are supposed to love...  at least you know that with us, we love ou just for being so good and kind to us when we need to lean on your words....  you're completely wonderful...just the way you are...  "big people" have been beat up way too long.... they already carry bruises and scarred egos from social disappointment....so why is it that people still have to treat you badly?  maybe they should walk a mile in your shoes...  maybe they should feel the sharpened edge of your tongue...  as a friend of yours, I'll always be here to help defend or to simply support....

T.

I wish I could have been there in person.  Families are sometimes hard to deal with.  I've been disowned numerous times and it's always hurtful, and truly for some of the most assnine reasons.  My advice from the trenches is stay away, and try not to foster anger-it only hurts you.

Your sister is going to monopolize this entire year and your entire family with her wedding and her drama-so just take a break from the chaos and stay out of the line of fire.  By the end of the year they will all be sick of her, and looking to welcome you back if you want to go.

Family teaches us to work with and tolerate the difficult people in life. 

Nancy, you are so welcome.  That's what friends are for!!!  We can't make what happened go away but we can show you that we care.  It seems like familys say the most hurtful things to those that they "love" and think that they can get buy with it.  We treat total strangers better than family at times.  Just remember that we do care and we're here for you!!!  (((hugs))))

I have a good sister and a bad sister too.  The bad sister doesn't pay back money she borrows and tells lies about me and my husband.  I'm so thankful for the good sister!  I'm glad you have a good sister too.