DING DONG the witch is gone - bye! bye! Joelle
on 2/3/09 11:50 am
on 2/3/09 10:43 pm
More so than that, she looked angry that anyone would disagree with her vision of who she is/her efforts. Now I agree that we shouldn't let people tell us who or what we are, but in a room full of people, if the entire room sees something the same and you see something different, you should at least consider what they are saying.
I felt so bad for Carla when she asked her if she at least understood where she was coming from.
Now,in a kinder note, maybe Joelle has had some trauma and if so, I feel sorry for her. But I do not think that one's personal trauma's and troubles make it OK to just disregard other people and their feelings and needs. No one knows what another person has seen or been through, and feeling "superior" because you think your bad thing is worse than someone elses, well, that's just buying into the whole victim mentality, but it also victimizes people who want to be your friend.
Sheila