OT..my sister and her pity party

When I went there last year, I gave her a bunch of material and the plexi glass patterns to use and even gave her written instructions on how to make them..her deal she wants me to do it so it wil be done an look good....
Maybe I am being a bitcoh but I am not doing it....I made three quilts for her mother-in-law who I never met cause she was in  arest home nd never could get warm..now she stays that way...if it wasnt for the fact that I talked to her father-in-law she would have took the credit for the quilts.
I talked to my nephew last night and hes making plans for us to go snowboarding and wants to try and get me to ski...yea sure...
I am going to be back my the 20th or when the eat and greet is here..LOL might drive straight through to get here

Okay a dose of reality.  It probably did scare her to death.  A few words of advice.  Tell her to talk to her doctor if she is still in pain, but your conversations with her are getting repetitive.  Tell her you love her, but you both need to find new things to talk about, positive things that are going on in both of your lives.  If she doesn't get the idea, cut the conversation short.  Believe it or not, being the support person for someone who is negative can be stressful for you -- and you don't need that.  Good luck.

Lynn I told her once if not a thousand times to talk to her surgeon...she won't do it....I have told her walk it helps the pain..she won't do it...I have tried everything I know to do....and now I am just about done with her...
She is wanting me to stay with her but to honest I would rather drive another hour an stay with my brother...hes a nut but doesnt drive me crazy....