I am hopeless

I am always hard on me thats how I survived. My quilting and giving back is my joy..just sometimes I get to overloaded....

Pajama's here are the daily requirement.. If you show up dressed, let's just say you are way over dressed.. Don't beat yourself up.. Relax, you have no one to report to exept yourself.. Enjoy YOUR day,,

Sheila

Sheila,
I dont mind wearing jammies all day IF I dont have alot to do. But for me to wear the same ones I went to bed in is uh uh not me. I have ocd and I think I am losing it....

Don't feel hopeless because I've got hope in you....  That speaks volumes since it takes a lot of gumption for me to have hope in many people....

I've built you up to a special person in my head....now let's make sure that it's easy for you to fill those shoes...

T.

OMG i am not wearing any....lol
Its just been one of those days sweetie....facing another surgery....dealing with family far away trying to help others...volunteering to hold unwanted babies and those that are terminally ill..it just has taken its toll on me.

I have been thinking about going to the Islands again....so I am checking into flights for May or June. I am blessed to have a friend that owns a cottage there....maybe some uh uh fun is what I need... single woman on an island paradise

Where do you volunteer to hold unwanted babies? I LOVE babies. I would have liked to have a ton of them, but I had to have a hysterectomy, but I think I could really like just being with them once in awhile.

I got my training..lol yes training in NC. You will have to call area hospitals and see if they need volunteers. I go at least once every 3 months to Memphis IF I am healthy and volunteer there.
I can not have children so for me its giving back all the love that I have. I started this when my best friend's daughter had premies. One was sent to the major hospital near my home so I went every day to take care of him.

Yeah, I want to know about those babies too!  We've been looking into adopting or foster parenting.  I haven't had a hysterectomy, but I've had a lot of fertility problems.  Hence the whole wls! 

I am a Mom to all kids..I can not have any so I just "adopt" all the kids that come in my range. I think my taking kids in came from my parents they were foster parents for kids that didnt fit into the norm back in the late 60's and  70's. In my parents home you would go to bed and wake up to find you had another member of the family....I am now the youngest sister to about 20 brothers and sisters that have stayed in touch...and try misbehaving with that many siblings

Pattye you are such a giving and loving person and you deserve some you time. So cut the phone off lay around in those jammies, take a long hot bath and pretend the world is not out there. You will feel better for it.