Here's the dish.... I'm skinny...for real and stuff
I am cheater I admit it..Food wise that is....To me if I am told I can not have something that makes me even more determined to eat it. So As I have found out certain foods are just a friggin waste of time to eat..ie wavy potato chips I ate them for like 2 weeks and for my stupidity I had a werid trips to the potty and I mean alot of them. Sugar does not make me dump just nauseated so why mess with it. I am a southerner and paula dean has nothing on me when it comes to frid chicken....chicken isnt chicken unless its crunchy. I have taken reciepes from her and modify them for me. GOT to have my chessy grits and lord forbid if I dont have a whole wheat biscuit once in awhile.
The key to me is not worrying about OMG I can not have this ever it is ...how can I have my cake and eat it too. Instead of wasting time crying over what I cant have I now use it to make what I want healthy.
my biggest lesson is one that I learned along time ago..any thing processed is not worth eatting. As for pasta I make my own..yes sir whole wheat flour and a egg white with some water makes the best pasta..it just takes time to make certain pastas and since I am not working I have time to kill. Potato sald is now made with califlower and I also make faux mashed tators using califlower....
For me this surgery was not to get thin just healthy..it was not about me becoming sexy(cause I already am) it is about living the best that I can be without dying young and having to have some poor slups carry my oversized frame.
So Sweet Tom please send me your lifestyle eatting plan. I have only four months to go before my hunnymoon period is over.
BTW I love ya
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Sarah
Now to hijack your thread, I want to know how I, as a woman, can kill those nasty monthly cravings? I caved today and had 3 cookies. 3! That's 300 calories!* Damn you hormones!
*I went to the Y and ran (running for me is jogging for most people) so I burned them off. OK, I only ran for 6 minutes before I thought I was going to die. With the other weights and cardio I did, I burned 350 calories. Go me!
If you're skinny and happy & healthy, then more power to ya. If you're skinny and wasting away & feeling tired and stuff, not so much. Only you know how you feel.
Since you had your surgery in OK, who are you seeing for after care? I guess I just need to know that you're taking proper care of yourself. I'll quit hovering now, for now.
Blessings,
Mary
ObesityHelp Support Group Leader and Support Group Coach
T.
IMHO from the little that can be seen from you avatar picture, you do look a little bit emaciated. The point is, how do you feel? and are you receiving aftercare and if so what does your dr. think of such a rapid weight loss?
I'm not sure if I read this correctly, but its seems that I read somewhere here a while back that you lost all your weight in just a few months. Your beginning weight was over 300lbs. ? and now you are at 160 something? Sounds like that would be extremely hard on your body. To lose that much weight in just a couple of months would mean you had to drop a huge amount of lbs. each month and still get the adequate nutrition that your body needs. That hardly seems possible, but, if I remember correctly, I thought that's what you had written.
Anyway, I do hope you are well. Maybe I just prefer to see a person with a little "meat" on their bones. Just want to make sure you are getting aftercare and your labs are all checking out OK. And - wanted to clarify that I am remembering other posts etc. where you said you lost the majority of your weight in a couple of months. Let us know.
Huggs,
Pammie
ps - Oh and how tall are you? 160 something on someone who is say 5"8" is different than on a person who is 6" or so.
Well the doc knew that I wold lose everything within 4 months just because we went over my plan and he grilled me about it and told me that I knew my stuff. I pulled the weight in 2 months instead...but I had nausea for a little of that, s I had some unfair help. I got put back on track from Rita and Ruth andKim threatening to beat me i i didn't eat more..so i chose to avoid the beating and the food I ate changed a bit to get around the nausea and I was much stronger the second month because of those changes. Now that I'm lighter and I've eaten so many healthy foods like flax and carrots and more raw foods along with my bad foods... I'm sronger than i expected to be and I'm able to run for extended sessions if I want...however I stopped running just to stop the weightloss....( my ketosis is pretty deep, and even though I can eat pizza, it doesn't stop my fat burn in the least.....now if I ate pizza everyday for a week, the would pull me almost of out ketosis...so that's bad...it takes weeks to get it this deep.)
So I still lift hundred pound bags of concrete and stuff and feel incredible nearly everyday...my only problem is sleep...I'm not getting much...but that isn't the fault of anything but me... hehe.
I'll be taking a few shots in a few weeks, and I'll post them so you don't just see one shot.
T.
Love you as always