WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO T.?

Oh - and I also haven't seen posts from T (cowboyonfire) for a while.  Anyone hear anything from him or seen him around? 

Usually there is something from him almost everyday but lately, unless I am missing something, he isn't around anymore.  Anybody know whats up with that?  Thanks.

Huggs,
Pam

I haven't seen him post for a while either!
Knowing him he's off sailing the high seas, and chasing women!  Not to worry abou that one!  LOL!
BTW, I love your new pic!
Hugs
Kim

Pam,

he's not going to like me telling my side of the story, but I'm willing to let everyone know that I feel sad that I finally come to the forum after he begged me and several others to join, only to not have him here anymore.

I talk to Thomas every few days or email him.  He still posts but not in the Oklahoma forum.  He told me that there were a few emails circulated about him from someone in the forums that were pretty negative and that this was the second time from this particular person and that instead of embarrassing himself by fighting in a public forum, he would simply avoid the drama. 

His view was to only help people who wanted the help not to preach or use scare tactics, but everyone knew his opinions and he stood by them.  he asked a specific question that he honestly needed the answer to, only to have one person interject her opinion over and over while he said he just wanted to know something about portion sizes or something like that. 

I'm sure I'll be getting an earful from him mentioning anything about this, but honestly, I have only seen him be supportive to people unless they constantly push his buttons.  He said the last time he got into a big fight with some person he let his words fly because he wanted to make sure people knew his side of the story and that he was completely truthful, even then this same person sent emails to a number of people without knowing the truth of the matter.  He wanted to avoid such things and just live peacefully without the drama.  I honestly don't blame him, I wouldn't want drama when all I wanted to do is help someone too. His last words to me about it were "It's in the past where I won't discuss it further."  I can't argue with him about it.  I've had to live with him for several years and once he sets his mind in motion, he's set.

Sarah

Did it occur to you that her remarks may not have been completely about you?

Hi Sherry......Good for you ....I so know what you are talking about with that guy T. I feel very sorry for Amy Beth. I am sort of coming in late on this drama. But allow me to tell you that T has some major issues. He too flirted with me via email. Saying how much money he has and all this phoney boloney wealth. Not once did I believe his line. He talked this bull over and over and I would laugh hysterically and show my friends and they all stated he is so insecure that he needs to boast online. I am sure this man has nothing....look closely at his photos....his truck is nothing, he is probally a laborer or a cook. It is sad that this man can hook these women with his lies. Please ladies beware of him....he is not at all what he is cracked up to be. I do not feel sorry for him....I feel sorry for his victims....he can't help himself, he is what he is. I applaud you for your courgage to challenge him. Thats why he ran....and ran he did off the site....unfornually he wants to look like the victim but he is nothing more than a poser.

Oh you should have read the lines he wrote me....how he made all this money and he is the shark behind the shark. That he dated all these barbie type women, he dosen;t have to work anylonger. Please what does he think women are stupid.....we would fall for that.

Sherry....I am proud of how you handled these posts.....you come across as a strong powerful woman who got his bull immediately.....I am proud of you......It is a pleasure to have read your posts you are awesome.....

Hi, Sarah.
Please let Thomas know how much I miss hearing from him. Surely, there is room for everyone here, even those with differing opinions. If not, there's always the "block" feature. We all need each other. Thanks for sharing. I hope T. won't be too upset with you. I think he knows your heart.
Blessings,
Mary

Sarah, you are completely on track. This forum isn't the same without T., but I don't blame him for not wanting to be a part of the drama anymore.

Sarah, I am so sorry to hear about Tom and the drama.  I absolutely HATE drama, so I don't blame him.  Tom, if you're at least lurking, we all miss you.  You have been so much help to so many people.  I hate it that someone is talking anything but good about you.  I hope you find your way back.  PM me, please.  I sent you a message a while back about the program.  Michael

Sarah~  I am glad you are here on our board now, but I do miss T being around.  It's not the same without his humor here.  Send him our well wishes and tell him I hope he finds his way back to us someday cuz we miss him!