Prayers for my Daddy
Blessings,
Mary
ObesityHelp Support Group Leader and Support Group Coach
190 lbs lost
VSG 07/2008
lower body lift 10/2010
upper body lift 11/2011
Rita, I am so sorry....I know two years ago Christmas was put on hold when Grandma broke her hip and had to have surgery....She became very combative and I had to be there 24/7 with her because the nurses lost patience with her and she was hurting herself instead of who she was fighting. It is a hard time and your heart is torn in so many directions at the same time....The thing is WE put so many expectations on ourselves when those around us fully understand and want peace for us....Some things just have to wait until another year, or just another time and there is nothing anyone can do about it....
I know that with all the grieving that you are still going through over your mother, this has to be so hard on you. I will pray for wisdom in your decisions and for the strength, both inner and outer strength to acomplish what has to be done. The thing is, it is so hard to make the decisions based on what is best for you at this time. I was always told to take care of myself or I could not take care of others....I was the type who made sacrafices for others at the cost of my own health. Caring for my grandmother for the years that I had her with me, took a tole on my health. Just be realistic in your decisions, that is the most important thing.
One more thing...Christmas is a season, not a day. It can wait until things calm down. I have found that to be true many years over the past and just as enjoyable!!
We all love you here Rita and send you loving hugs. Just let God carry you through all of this....
I am just so sorry that this has come on so quick since your mothers passing. I'm praying!
Sherry
Rita~ My thoughts and prayers are with you and your dad this Holiday season and beyond... May God's peace be with you!
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