New to Site and Excited
You and your mom doing this together is great. I had my surgery in July and my sister hopes to have hers this fall. I know it will help so much for her to have someone that understands fully and can reassure her every step of the way.
You are young girl!! I wish I could have done this 10 years ago!! Your Mom will have such a new lease on life once she has recovered from surgery. She will feel like she is in her 30s again instead of feeling like she doesn't have long to live.
This surgery (and the other WLS) have given us all our lives back! Welcome to the group! -Amy
190 lbs lost
VSG 07/2008
lower body lift 10/2010
upper body lift 11/2011
dr b is the bomb!! i love him and thank him for giving me a chance to take control of my weight instead of letting my weight take control of me. i feel wonderful about myself now and i am proud of myself.
i am so glad that you have your mom to help you thru this. i couldn't have done as well as i have without the support of my family especially my husband.
hopefully the process will go quickly for you because it is so hard to wait for everything when you were ready yesterday!!
good luck on your incredible journey and feel free to ask any question you need an answer to. no questions are dumb!!
I am getting ready to have my first scrambled egg with cottage cheese. I am so
excited for real food. My surgery took a tailspin after I was put into my room from recovery.
All my family was there to meet me and all they said that I was saying I hurt I hurt!
I do not remember anything from that moment on cause I began to plummet and have
irregular heart rate problems. It scared my family alot! But now after being in ICU for
2 days that got better and now that I am home - I am getting ready to do a heart
monitor for 14 days to see what is going on with the heart. I probably had this before
surgery but was more pronounced due to stress of surgery. I have had a condition for a
week now and wanted to know if any one else has had this??
I keep spitting up foam from my throat and also my voice is almost gone.
Let me know if anyone has had this. They are sending me to an ENT to check out my voice
sitiuation. Besides all of this stuff -- I am feeling better today.
I lost 20 lbs at my post op visit on Friday. YEA!!!!!
Please email me and let me know that you are out there and would love to hear
from you. I am 56 yrs younger each day and have 2 grown kids and so far one
granddaughter. Have been married to sweetheart found in bar at OSU since 1972.
Hi Angela, and welcome! This is a great place to be for information, support, inspiration and heck, even entertainment at times! I read your profile, and, yes you are doing this for all the right reasons. Health and confidence are the most important things in life, if you don't have that, your whole prespective of life on a day to day basis changes.
Dr. B is great! He has truly saved my life and changed my outlook on food. He knows what he is doing, just follow what he says and you will succeed.
I also have a child, she is an opinionated teenager, and even though I can truly say I did this for my health, I know that deep down she was a key reason for me going through this process. I was truly tired of being so heavy and it was affecting our relatioship, in terms of me being unable to do the things she wanted me to do. I can now go shopping with her and be able to keep up with her throughout the whole time. That is amazing to me and mostly, to her.
You can do this! I have lost a lot of weight so far, and still have a lot to lose! It is unreal to me the many attempts I made to try to lose weight in the past, the money spent on those way surpass what I spent on the surgery (yep, self-pay). I remember cringing everytime I wrote a check to Jenny Craig for their nasty food...yet paying for this surgery...well, I was so happy to do it, it's undescribable (is that a word?)!! I am no longer on a diet....this is a way of life, yes, it takes adjusting, but when you have conquered that, it's a wonderful ride.
They will help you at Weightwise to get adjusted to this. Best of luck. and if you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask!
Anna
I'm new here too! Anytime you have questions, concerns or just need to vent! This is the best place to be!
What a wonderful person you are to be so supportive of your mother!
Lots of luck with your journey! You are with friends!
Kim