I Was Used

Wow. Its good that you found out so early that she was a hose beast. Take it as a learning experience and not as anything against your character. Its hard not to take it personal but TRY not to. When you open yourself up to others, sometimes the leeches make their way in first and we can shut down emotionally. But if you do that, you will miss so many good things in life! Take away the good things, learn from the bad things, and go out with your classmate. That sounds better anyway.

Sorry it didn't work out, but as everyone has stated it is better to find this stuff out early. Come hang with us at the dinner Wednesday night and we will get you in a better mood!

Sherri

Dan, it really does suck....I promise you as you grow in life...You will begin to see through these types...Obviously, you did see this in her and that is great! I'm proud of you. I think many people who have weight issues tend to settle for fear they won't find someone else...NEVER settle!!! You are the same man inside as you were before this surgery...You would have been a catch then and are now. I find it funny she would say she wanted to date other guys too....Well duh!! You didn't ask her to marry you. It was a first date!!! I'm sure you would like to shop around too!!!
Date alot...learn alot....be a little picky and like I said....NEVER settle.   I hate users too and the world is full of them so be on guard!!  Good luck in this area of your life...You have plenty of time to find Ms.Right!!   By the way you are looking really HOT!!  To young for me but still HOT!!!

Sher

LOL thanks...I think ...**blushes**.  I went to lunch alone with the gal from school today and we were rushed but still got a little chatting in.  Will see how things go.

Ok give me her name and address and I will beat her up... just kidding.. Your to good a person to be with someone like that! 
Sounds like the girl at school might be an option both of you are working on bettering yourselves.. that is always a plus.. good luck
and remember the sultan must not settle for less than perfect!

Just remember not to rush anything and don't get serious too soon. Take your time. The right one will come along. For now, just date miss right for right now in the moment.

Sexy WOLF!
I have learned that if a person asks me where I work and does not say where they do or is vague about there residence...****WARNING**** this person is a moucher a user.
Ya know when someone is honest they will talk about where they work at and live at... not finishing HS is not that big of a deal...but living in  a government free apartment means either are disabled or they have a kid..ya cant get in those places unless you fall in one of those catagories.
Do yourself a favor don't rush into a relationship just do some casual dating...dont let the heart become invested....cause chicks know how to use sweet guys like you in a heart beat...even the ones that act otherwise in the beginning know how to con.
If I was younger I would be asking ya for your number...just to see how big your "boots" really are..

Well Pattye I gotta say I am flattered LOL. 

Dan, you're smokin'. You don't need mooching low-lifes.

You don't need any triflin' hoe anyways!!  Sorry dude for the girl troubles.  Let me be cliche and say... hang in there!  It will happen for you!  You got it all just be patient!  Believe me, I have kissed a number of frogs and now I have a sweet baboo that has been taking care of me through all my surgery stuff, so it will happen for u too!