I Was Used

Well the weekend that started so wonderful ended in disaster.  The gal was using me for my money and when the money ran out she got "cold feet" and said she stil wanted to date me but didnt want to be tied down and wanted to date other guys.  She has not talked to me now since I took her home Saturday night.  But I found out that night she has no car, didnt finish high school, she has no job, and lives in her apartment for free off government money.  So I am better off if you all ask me.  I am going to go out still with the gal from my class so who knows maybe that will work out. 

USERS SUCK!

DON'T LET THE USERS STOMP ON YOUR DREAMS!

I THINK IT'S BETTER TO KNOW SOONER THAN LATER THEN YOU HAVE A LOT LESS INVESTED EMOTIONALLY AND FINANCIALLY!


HANG IN THERE!

I am so sorry that this has happened.. Good riddens!!!!  Keep your chin up...

Kick her Butt to the curb!  You will find the right one, don't get discouraged!  At least you found out how she was before things got serious.  I've been there and been the one being used.  Only I married the guy!  What a LOSER (bad kind) He was!  Then I prayed for God to send me someone who needed me as much as I needed them.  And He sure did.  I met my hubby and we are perfectly matched!  He's a wonderful man.  Trust me, there are too many women out there to be stuck with one who only wants you for what you've got financially.  You need to find one who wants you for WHO YOU ARE!!! 
Ok!  I'm off my soap box now!  Happy Tuesday all!

I'm so sorry that your exciting weekend went south.  But....I'm glad you didn't get a whole lot invested in a relationship to end in disaster.  You sure don't need that.  Things happen for a reason and you sure don't need a looser.  (Wow, sounds like I'm talking to my daughter now.  She ended a marriage 3 years ago after finding out the dh was messing around when he was abroad on active duty...what a disaster.  I wish she had found out those things before the I dooos).  The right one for you will come along and you'll have a perfect match.  With school and all you don't have time for all the drama anyway...take the time for you, have fun and focus!!!    

Dan
Sorry to hear that things didnt go well, but like everyone else said at least you found out early instead of getting emotionally tied to this person.  There are plenty of fish out there, so keep fishing.
Karen

Isn't this the gal that your lifelong friend introduced you to?  How the hell did your good buddy not figure out this gal was a user??  I think I'd be having a chat with her!

Sorry this happened but at least you found out now.  What a hag!  She doesn't deserve you!  Good riddance!  The Sultan has a very lovely woman waiting for him out there somewhere.  You'll find her!

dang dating is hard!!!!!!

UGH! Hopefully things will go better with the gal from class, but if not keep looking, She's out there I promise! Don't EVER settle for less than you deserve you'll only end up disapointed and frusterated!! Good LUCK!

Dan~ You know my opinion already from talking to me~ Users are not cool and I wish you luck in finding a great quality woman to spend your time with. **hugs**