Integris Support group
Hi Leanne. I was at the meeting Saturday. I must say I learned a lot from it and unfortunantly am having some serious thoughts now. The lap band is what I am planning for with Dr. Gor. Tests are all finished and just waiting now. Do you have to eat 1/2 cup of food at a meal for the rest of your life? What about vitamins. Must a person take all this from now unto eternity?
It just seems to me that a diet would be so much easier than this. Most diets a person will loose about the same rate of time. Am I right? Don't see the advantage of it . Really need a lot of information on all this. Been to 2 siminars and one support. Sorry, just going crazy right now. I have already put up my $300.00 and if I back out my husband will shoot me. Help!!
Suzanne
It just seems to me that a diet would be so much easier than this. Most diets a person will loose about the same rate of time. Am I right? Don't see the advantage of it . Really need a lot of information on all this. Been to 2 siminars and one support. Sorry, just going crazy right now. I have already put up my $300.00 and if I back out my husband will shoot me. Help!!
Suzanne
I will tell you about my own personal experience , and it a very personal choice you have to make for yourself , i think it is normal to have questions or even second thoughts. First , nothing about this is easy , you must be totally committed to whatever surgery you choose , it is a way of life . I eat more than a half cup of food , with that said i know when i am full and i have had to learn that through making mistakes , the whole thing is a learning experience. I have also changed the way i eat completely , as i said at support group , i could eat whatever i want , i have had no probs with anything , BUT i choose not to because i want to lose the weight and i want to be healthy. You have to realize the Lapband is only a tool that helps you control your hunger . I do not take anything but a multivitamin daily , i never have , Dr G. says that is all i need. For me , it has been a lifesaver , and for the first time i have been able to lose weight and change the way i eat. You absolutely will not be able to eat the way you do now as far as the amount and you have to realize as i said it is ONLY a tool , i also exercise my butt off in the gym daily , i dont eat sugar , i dont eat fast food , i dont eat fried food , but this is my choice. I didnt come to this decision easily , but I will say Dr. G has helped me change but ultimately i am doing it on my own. As far as dieting , he has told me a number of times this is not a diet , and obviously diets dont work for me , i needed some help , the band helps you with satiety(sp) or the feeling of being full. The only other thing i can say is listen and do everything he tells you and you will be successful , but you must be committed and surround yourself with good people like these men and women here who can support you . I hope this helps , it is only my opinion and in no way am i the expert .
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