is there something wrong...

monday is my big day...i am not nervous, scared, worried, anxious or even excited.i feel like the calm after a shower.the peace i am having right now is so unusual from what others have talked about....so is there something wrong with me...who knows...all i know is after waiting and being on that pre op diet since july 19 i am finally getting back my life...even the all liquids isnt bothering me.somebody take my temperature....

There is nothing wrong with you at all!  I think it just shows that you are extremely ready and are going to do extremely well.  We are all different in the way we handle things.  I think you are ready to live the rest of your life! IT'S ALMOST HERE!!!  YEAH!!! T

There is nothing wrong with you at all!  I think it just shows that you are extremely ready and are going to do extremely well.  We are all different in the way we handle things.  I think you are ready to live the rest of your life! IT'S ALMOST HERE!!!  YEAH!!! T

Hey girl!  My surgery is Wednesday the 7th.  I feel EXACTLY the way you described.  For me, everyone at the pre-op appt was "Aren't you SO excited??" and honestly - I'm not.  Not the Classic way one would act EXCITED.  I mean, I'm happy, excited, nervous but on the outside I'm acting like its just another day.  I am wondering if I really want the surgery as bad as others.  Of course I do... Its just I'm just not jumping up and down.....  I need therapy!!! hehehe   I truely wish you the best and pray all goes well with you - I know you have worked SO HARD to get this far!!!!  -me

i feel the same way girls , my surgery is Thursday , and i just feel at peace with my decision and ready to get it done ,,,good luck to both of you

i feel so much beter knowing i am not the only one that feels this way...its one day closer and all i can think of is am i gonna get it all done in time...

Wow there will be the three of you starting on your new road in the same week. I hope the best to all of you on your journey. Will be thinking of each of you next week. Debra

Good luck to us for our new journey and thanks to all the support!!!  Gotta luv them Okies!!!!

I think that you are very much at peace with your decision, and that is the best way to be.  I'm a big control freak, and when I surrendered to the decision and to the process I felt a peace I had never felt before.  It was MY decision, but the surgery was up to the surgeon and God, and then the aftercare was up to me again. And I've kept a little bit of that peace with me ever since, and am really getting better about letting things go. Even the night before, I was up most of the night, but it was only with sheer excitement-I just wanted it to be ON.

i am not sleeping like i use to and it seems like i am so more energtic then  before..but then i have lost alot of weight on my own...the surgery is the touch down for me knowing i am finally having a say in my life.... now if i could just figure out..how to do the dang ticker...life would be so grand.....