Ticked!!!

queenbeeme
on 7/11/07 2:23 am - Tuttle, OK
Okay, so this particular story is about a sports caster here in OKC, and maybe that's why it's sooo freakin irritating to me... Bob Barry Jr. A sports caster on Channel 4 here in OKC had RnY 2 weeks ago!!! Yeah I'm so excited for him... the piece they showed on the news last night was GREAT, very positive, I don't remember anything negative about it at all, I was VERY impressed with the piece... Then I go to the site this morning to read his blog about it... and here we go!!! He's ALREADY F'N not following his meal plan!!! SERIOUSLY 14 days out and already testing his limits... it's really a GREAT thing his blog doesn't have a comments section because I'd be all up in his A$$!!! He says in the segment they aired last night that he needs something so drastic and permanent because he's CHEATED everyother diet he's EVER been on and the MORON is doing the same thing now and doesn't even relize it!!! ARRRRGGGG!!!! this is EXACTLY why our surgery has such a bad rap... it's not the tool that's not working, it's the freakin patient and it ****** me off!!! I've linked the story in case you want to read/watch any of it... Am I alone here???  www.kfor.com/Global/story.asp?S=6765100&nav=menu99_2_5 Okay rant over :fairy: Lori
crazy.eights
on 7/11/07 3:27 am - Lawton, OK
Lori, I agree with you that he is heading for trouble. He is already drinking well eating. I Have come back to this site because I stopped doing all that I know and am now paying the price with weight gain. Have been reading everyone's post for about a month or two and need to talk to others on this site so gave in and signed in.  You could go to the sports part and post a comment to him there. He is going to need help. Thank you Debbie
rroberts
on 7/11/07 11:30 pm - Oklahoma City, OK
Lori: They'll straighten him out.  I am sure that his surgeon and dietitian have seen his blog as well.  I passed him in the clinic yesterday before his appointment.  Did I want to say something to the dietitian?  Yep - but as we are all aware we have to be accountable to ourselves and the program we are on.  It is our own fight and much as I agree with you, he is going to have to learn the lessons we have all learned.  Knowing the program he is involved in as well as I do, since I am one year post-op from the same program, I was a BIT freaked out that he had already had some food that I will NEVER eat and didn't attempt most of it until my dietitian instructed to do so.   It is the hardest thing we have to do to learn to be responsible with our tool and ensure that we are doing the right thing.  Let's see how his next blog goes and what his 2 week post op appointments have done to change his "cheating."   It is okay to rant - I was doing the same thing.  But at the same time, he is publicly putting himself out there with his surgery and he is going to need all the support we can muster for him.  You know his family history and the surgery is a good thing, he just has to learn to deal with his limitations. Ruth

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Patiurple
on 7/12/07 3:13 am - Wheatland, OK
Vent would not be the word I want to use. He is making a big mockery of WLS. Oh i tried a HALF of a weiner and then some steak and some potato.. then you wonder how he gained weight back on other diets...NOT he will be another one of those people who claim that WLS did not work for them... Good thing I don'****ch that news cast....
queenbeeme
on 7/12/07 3:33 am - Tuttle, OK
Exactly!!!  I emailled him this morning and this is what I said...

I'm sure you received more than a few emails over the past two days regarding your bypass blog, and I'm glad to say a few of them were a result of me posting your story/blog on a few of the message boards I frequent in regards to the RnY surgery.

 

I'll try not to take up a lot of your time, but tell you a little about myself. My name is Lori and I had RnY surgery on March 30, 2004. I'm 3 years post op and love my life now. I cannot begin to tell you how happy I was when I saw your segment on Tuesday night, I was so glad someone finally put out a positive piece about the surgery, THANK YOU so much for being so out in the public about it, and not being ashamed. You DIDN'T take the easy way out, you took the HARDEST road EVER, and I know from being there myself! On the flip side, I can't even begin to tell you how hellaciously angry I was when I read your blog yesterday morning, talking about "experimenting" OMG, I was so mad at you!!! How dare you be on TV and be so open and even saying in your segment "Why do something so drastic, so permanent? I've cheated on every diet I've ever been on, I need drastic and permanent!" then state in your blog that you've experimented!!! I'm 3 years post op and just now experimenting and testing my limits, and I'm not being watched as closely as you are/will be. You need to follow your dietitian program to the tee, and whatever you do, DON'T DRINK WITH YOUR MEALS!!!

I wish you NOTHING but the best with your new tool... Treasure it and keep it new and sparkly, don't take any chances... You did this for your health, don't cheat yourself out of a program that you can finally be successful at! I have a friend that has been trying to get approved for surgery for 5 years and keeps getting the rug pulled out from under her at every turn. You've been blessed with something that lots of people need, but can't get and may die trying to get, please don't screw it up!

Best wishes on your new life and new journey, it's bound to not be fun, and extremely bumpy, but I know you're going to make it.

Lori

Patiurple
on 7/12/07 8:16 am - Wheatland, OK
I am so proud of you! You were polite but very firm. I was going to write a letter to him but I had to get ready for my doc appointment but I gurantee after I post this I am gonna write to him too. WE need to stick together on this...I get so mad at those that claim WKS did not work or that I have this now as when I was fat I did not have it. People like that are the reason insurance companies exclude WLS. Thnak you for standing firm Pattye
queenbeeme
on 7/12/07 11:08 pm - Tuttle, OK
He actually emailled me back... here is what he said; Thanks for the encouraging words Lori.  And I understand what you're talking about with the "experimentation";  I heard about it loud and clear from my dietician and Dr. Walton both at my first post-op appointment yesterday.  But hey, I've never done this before - I had been on liquids for two weeks and I tried some stuff.  Turns out that was a bad idea...and now I know what I'm supposed to do in the coming weeks.   Glad to hear about your success with Roux-en-Y.  Thanks for taking the time to write.   bbj/ Bob Barry, Jr. Sports Director KFOR-TV Sports (NBC) [email protected] [email protected] I'm so hapy for him, and I wish him nothing but the best!
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